So my buddy who is new to PUA (not on the forum yet) just had a day 2 with a HB8 he met a few weeks ago. They ended up staying at her place all night instead of going anywhere. Things were getting hot and heavy when he hit some massive LMR. He relented and they ended up going to bed without a full close. In the morning however, they made up for the night before. Twice. He said she was being all cute and everything was really comfortable. She even made him breakfast! He time bridged to see her later on that week.

Two days before the next date, she called and canceled saying that she needed to talk to him. They finally talked today and she basically said she just "wasn't feeling it," which is weird because she was definitely feeling it just a few nights ago.

1. What is going on here? Is this a simple case of buyer's remorse or do you think there is something else going on in the background that he doesn't know about?

2. Where does he go from here? He still wants to see her, but doesn't know what to do and I'm at a loss for giving him advice. I've already instructed him on what he messed up, but don't know what he can do to get her back.

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That's... a good question.

My initial thought is she has decided to "choose" another guy. It doesn't sound like BR.

Where'd he meet her? If he could run into her it would be better than pestering her by phone ect. If he does, he should almost act as though they're good friends, though - not continue on from where things were left off - ie go back to A2 to simplify.

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