Ok so a few nights ago I see this girl at the mall that I met a few months back. We get to talking for about an hour and have a great time, she even lets me know with a text message after we went out seperate ways that said something along the lines of "that's the best time I've ever had at the mall."

Well later that night she invites me to her friends apartment to hang out. After a while I show up and we continue our good day of mutual comfort building. Well her ex boyfriend shows up and sees her sitting next to me and gets the picture and proceeds to act like a little bitch because he knows he's out of the picture. So we ended up hooking up that night, only kiss. She's classy and I figured I'd F-Close the next time I see her.

The problem is, I haven't heard from her since. Bear in mind, she was dropping serious IOI's all night and I could tell the comfort and attraction was there. She even went so far as to tell one of her friends that she was into me. I've called and texted her once, but she hasn't responded to me. Her facebook status is now "never never again".

What do you guys think is going on here? Should I forget about it, or do I pursue the almighty F-close, and if so, how do I go about it?

Maybe she played you just to make her "Ex" jealous and to get him back. Or she thought she is over him and decided to have fun but after she hooked up with you, she felt guilty and got back to her "ex". That would also explain her FB status.

Forget her.

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Yeah I thought the same thing. Especially the guilt feelings.

Forget her mate... In a couple of months time, she'll see you in the mall and you never know what will happen... but what ever u do, dont chase her

Well I have had a similar situation to this one and it went something like this:

Me and the girl had a great time, I kicked ass gaming her etc.

Now suddenly one morning (we were in a same camp) she starts ignoring me... I tried to speak with her few times but she said shes really busy and things like that. Now I think to myself that okay, I will not chase her... And ignored her.

The last day in the camp, I just hugged her and said "Mind if I ask you a question?", which she ofc just said "No, don't ask."

Well now I was about 110% sure that I had lost her... So now I just moved on to my next target (her friend *cough*).


Now suddenly, 2 months after the camp my original target texts me and after a while admits that she have been thinking about me all the time (24/7) since our camp etc... Also she said that she was texting without her friend knowing (her friend likes me... Hmm.)



The situation today is that my original target AND her friend likes me... Badboy, am I ?!


The answer to your question is: Create jealousy.

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