Here's the story: I live with HB10 Housemate. HB6Divorced orbits HB10. HB6 is negative, has no social circle of her own, and generally brings us down. HB6Divorced is always coming around and basically wants to see me. I normally blow her out of the water whenever she tries to shit test me, which she tries to do often. I have never shown any interest in her, but now she starts texting:

"Hey J. What are you doing this weekend?"

Ignore.

"Hey J. You owe me some money, can you pay me back Im broke."

Ignore.

"Hey want to meet up tomorrow?"

I consult HB10 about this. She says do what you like. OK, I say I'll be polite and invite her: "Alright. I'm heading out with my friends tomorrow your welcome to tag along. Starts at 6pm"

"Sounds good."

1pm: "Hey J. If its going to be with close friends, I dont think I'll come."

Ignore.

5pm: "Hey do you still want me to come?

5:40pm I say: "What?"

8pm: "I'm coming over, where are you."

Ignore.

She gives me a missed call.

Ignore.

She gets HB10Housemate to give me a call. I ignore that.

HB10Housemate calls me again. I pick up. "Yeah look she's really late and its nearly finished anyway. I'll be back home soon." I get back and HBDivorced is at my house. But she soon leaves.

"Hey J. What happened tonight. I cant read your mind you know."

Ignore.

"Hey J. Last night went kind of bad. Lets meet this weekend."

Ignore.

Now its Saturday night, 1am.

She gives me a missed call. I pick up, but dont say anything. I'm gaming and I put the phone up so she can hear the conversation I'm having with another girl.

She gives me 3 missed calls.

2am: She texts saying "Hey J. Where are you. Want to meet up?

Ignore.

3:40am: "I think you're really rude and have no idea how to treat people. You'll never make any friends like that."

Ignore.

............................

Its my birthday today, and I want to go go-karting with HB10. But HB6 wants to tag along, and its my birthday and I really dont want this loser stalker to go.

I speak to HB10:

HB10: "What time are you thinking of going, we'll be ready soon."
Me: "Oh so HB6 is going as well?"
HB10: "Its up to you"
Me: "Well she always invites herself to our things so I'd prefer if she didnt"
HB10: "Me too - I'll tell her we're not going"
Me: "Great, lets go at 4pm"

HB10 gets tied up with HB6 for the rest of the night. We dont go go-karting, And its my fucking birthday. What to do???

Introduce HB6 to someone you don't like... buwahahahaha.

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you need to sit HB6 down, and calmly tell her.... that you drown kittens for fun srsly tho, just keep ignoring her, she'll eventually get the msg; that are get offended by you, both good choices

So it sounds like HB10 is friends with HBStalker. Yeah, they are housemates and maybe HB10 gets annoyed with her sometimes, but the fact of the matter is that HBStalker will be a little birdie whispering in HB10's ear when you're not around.

You need to be careful not to be too big of a dick to HBStalker if you still want to get with HB10. It's a fine line you're walking here my friend. Tread lightly.

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-That's my two cents...

be a damn man and tell the HB6 (a 6 is HB?) that you think her actions are freaking you out. wierding you out. scaring you. pick one. i've dealt with a woman recently that's just what you described. unfortunately, part of your life (friends with HB10), but someone you don't exactly want to be around. what i did was explain that what she was doing was crazy and i didn't want that kind of relationship with her. i let her figure out what i meant on her own, since our perspectives of "crazy" and "relationship" had obvious differences. this chick backed off quite a bit, and while i still hear from her occasionally, nothing like before. no more no-notice crap and all that shit. good luck!

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