Right now im watching some show about porn stars and its got me thinking. Are all women whores? Im in high school and of course girls are realizing that they are hot and such so they are going to have sex. But it seems like they don't give it value. They will give it out to guys that try hard enough. I knew some girls that I thought were pretty high value and made me kind of work for it, some time went by I didn't talk to them. I went chilling with the bros one night, went and hit on random chicks in the city. It was great fun, we got to talking about chicks and these girls came up that I thought were not whores. Turns out they were pretty big whores, completely against what I thought. It really took me by suprise. And one thing ive realized is most of the girls ive known are this way. Im not hanging out with trashy broads or anything. Are they just really horny at this stage or are they going to be like this their whole life? My definition of whore may vary from yours but they are just not giving any value to it. I am one for high class chicks, i prefer to the "thrill of the hunt" So the idea of finding a "high class" chick is just way to outlandish for my age bracket or should I get thicker skin about this whole thing?

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I just wanna fuck bad bitches, for all the nights I never had bitches.

Whores? I prefer the term "sexually liberated WOMEN."

Let go of your sexual hangups, man. Sex shouldn't be a taboo thing that should be reserved for "special" shit. It's a pleasurable expression that spreads good feeling in the universe.

It also spreads HPV lol

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Don't be a fool.
Wrap your fucking tool.

Women are whores...

They sell sex for survival value, that makes them all whores.

More sophisticated women (those who make you work for sex...) can be found as well, you jsut have to go to the right places.

Goddammit guys! Stop antagonizing women for sexual expressiveness. Instead, try being a little more compassionate and understanding.

Alright, so imagine this: You are a man. You have money. You find out that you can, either directly or indirectly, get laid for some amount of cash.

If you spend all you're money, you're kinda fucked.

Then you discover some great invention that allows you to have an unlimited amount of cash. What the hell would you do?

Alright, so imagine this: You are a woman. You have a pussy. You find out that you can, either directly or indirectly, get whatever the hell you want from men for a chance at sticking something in that pussy. YOU CAN ALSO FEEL AWESOME PLEASURE.

If you get pregnant, YOU COULD DIE.

Then you discover some great invention that allows you to have an unlimited amount of sex without getting pregnant. What the hell would you do?

Stop fucking complaining about women having too much sex with men that are not you and just become one of those men that women are having too much sex with. Jesus Christ.

Perfect!

I agree with you but there is a thin line between being sexually liberated and having no self-respect.

And, sorry, but I can't stand women without self-respect.

I agree with the both of you.

The difference between whore, and sexually liberated woman is her self esteem.

Does she fuck any guy who can buy her a drink?

Or does she stick to the one she is dating?
Or soon to be dating...

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Uh won't this have to do with her self respect? If she fucks any guy that buys her a drink she obviously has no self respect. If she only fucks guys she is at least seeing (meaning she has gotten to know the guy at least some), she is bound to have at least some self respect for her self.

So let's see if I get this right....

You are MEN, right? You guys decided to learn how to pick up women in order to have relationships and sex, right?

So you come here hoping to get laid, cause you are in highschool and a guy and your hormones are going nuts. Then you realise that, "OMG! Women actually LOVE SEX! JUST LIKE GUYS!" and all your dreams of getting laid, all your time spent "watching a show about porn stars", is suddenly no longer a dream and suddenly you realise it's perfectly plausable and so you no longer want it? Talk about wanting what you can't have.

I'm not saying there is anything wrong with sex within the boundries of a loving relationship, that's my ideal and god damnnnnnn is it better than casual sex, but that's not to say that sex without love isn't good in other ways, or that it is bad or dirty or whorish. That's just lashing out and you need to seek some enlightenment and growth. I used to hate the guys that got girls, but now I realise I just didn't realise what was going on, same thing with you, you need to realise that you're just not seeing the big picture here.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

It gets a bit distorted when we change the subject.

1-If you are a man and you fuck all the girls...
-Women will say: "he must be something"
-Men will say: "man, he is GOD! what is his secret?"

2-If you are a woman and you are fucked by all the guys...
-Women will say: "she is a whore, omg, what a bitch"
-Men will say: she is a whore, omg, what a bitch" even though many of them will still want to fuck her

Unfortunately women must be careful about her sex life because society is still haunted by these stigmas regarding "santity in sex" and women are special victms of this.

So, I believe it does not matter if you are a man or a woman: if you have sex without standards of quality, you probably don't see yourself as a high value individual and this screams self-esteem issues.

I guess Its a classic example of "you want something you can't have" I always feel like once I have something I don't want it anymore. Is there a way I can reframe myself to not thinking this way? I feel almost like a hypocrite right now.

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I just wanna fuck bad bitches, for all the nights I never had bitches.

Take a look around Santos, you OBVIOUSLY aren't living in modern society if you think that guys can just fuck as many women as they can and not be thought of as sluts. I hear more women calling men sluts these days, than I hear guys calling girls sluts. To be perfectly honest, I hear more guys in the community calling girls sluts than anyone else I talk to. It completely boggles my mind that these double standards are still perceived, because from where I'm standing, we're getting pretty damned close to even ground.

Guys that sleep with a lot of women are considered sluts, girls that sleep with lots of guys are considered sluts, so what's the big deal? The sexual revolution is basically over, it's done, people aren't repressed anymore. Not everyone is going around sleeping with tons of people either; if this is your perception of things, perhaps you just need to get out more, or get out to different places, where you can meet some higher class people.

Don't judge an entire gender based upon the gutter trash you may be seeing on tv, or running into at your local dive bar. Perhaps hit up a museum, an art gallery, a pub in the office district, or some other place where you'll find some people of class and sophistication, before you make sweeping generalizations, based upon a limited experience of the world.

Don't tell me I'm changing the subject, cause I'm not, I'm addressing the topic that was brought up originally. The statement was that all women are whores and that's bullshit, they aren't. If you don't believe me, well then perhaps I should introduce you to some of my old co-workers; I used to be a porn star and I worked with more than a few girls that were paid in order to perform on camera, but by god if you think you could take them home just from buying them a drink, then you truly don't know what a porn star is. Just because there are some women out there that aren't sexually repressed, doesn't mean that they will have sex with anyone, or that you just have to give them money. To porn stars, performing on camera is a job and off camera all the girls I knew were either in serious relationships, or wouldn't sleep with someone unless they were.

Just because YOU don't see a guy as being high value and thus you assume the girl has no standards, doesn't mean it's true. Everyone has different beliefs, everyone has different standards and everyone is going to judge everyone differently. What one person sees as a jerk, another person sees as a great guy, who is there for his friends and is a strong leader. If a girl thinks a guy is worth her time, then who are you to make the judgement and say that she has self esteem issues? Of course there are tons of cases of women that are with guys that we can label as jerks and that even treat those girls poorly, but are you going to proclaim to be able to make the judgement upon who is and who isn't worthy of her affection?

I'm not saying I've never felt this way before, I have. But then I took some time to see the world, to go places, to meet people, to try things, I've done more in my life than some people I've met that are 3 times my age and not all of it was good. I've talked to people far more wise than myself, I've read books by people that have done more than me and whenever someone else has a POSITIVE point of view on life, I open my ears and pull up a chair. I'd suggest anyone that is having such negative views of the world and the "fairer sex" try doing the same, because what I have learned through my own experiences and from the countless people that have done far more than me and that are/were far wiser than me (RIP Randy Pausch), is that having negative outlooks on life is never benificial; find a way to view things in a positive light, like you can see Chief has, and you will succeed in life, but if you are a pessemist, then you aren't gonna get anywhere except pissed off and unhappy.

Viewing women in such a light is a choice that you choose to make. Choose to view them differently for your own sake.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

Do yourself a favor and pick up a copy of Awaken The Giant Within by Anthony Robins and give it a read. It will teach you everything you need to know about reframing how you think about anything, any belief you have.

Not too long ago I believed that there weren't any women out there that I was going to be interested in, I gave up on thinking there were any girls worthy my interest, because I expected to be let down in one way or another. I changed that belief in the course of reading a sentence and although I still have to revisit that belief and strengthen it from time to time, I no longer feel that way at all. You can do the same, the only thing you need is to want to and to know how to go about it.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye