I need help with this concrete situation:

I met this HB9,5 in college last week and for the first time after discovering the pua community and doing lots of thinking about some errors of the past, I decided to put my renewed c&f/teasing attitude to test, while experimenting with some soft Negs. The result was more than impressive! in less than 30 minutes she was asking me to write her down my number and e-mail (well, we had already seen each other in college and her shield wasn’t as hard as I had expected, nevertheless it was a victory!)

Yet In the same day I was disappointed to discover that she had a boyfriend and that she was also very outgoing with other boys.

I only met her again yesterday and I could tell she was totally into me. She called me during the break to know where I was. We went to class together and she neglected her friends and sat next to me. I kept negging and teasing while she would tell me stuff like: ---”You’re so mean! But I know you love me!”--- I gave her some chick crack during class, and well, the chick was loving it! (by the way if you know any of that type of word games or personality tests please share- they’re gold!) Because of the bf thing I didn’t call her or send any text message.

I think that if she was single or even if both of us were in the same club by ourselves I would be able to get this girl, however I would like to do things smoother. Any tips from experienced PUAs would be welcome!

(on my side I have 2 major points of sexual tension:

1- we sit together in this class
2- we have this joke about enjoying coffee ( I asked her to write 3 words to describe coffee and told her that they represented the way she felt about sex- she did the same to me afterwards- and we both came up with very similar adjectives)

Where should I go from here?

* also, I managed to put a lot of emphasis in the date we met, like if we had started dating or something.

Any tips are welcome!

Hello!

Wow, my first post, what a day this is!

I'd recommend not worrying about the boyfriend thing at all. It's only a big deal if you make it a big deal.

Look at it this way, if she's having more fun with you than him... you got her.

One thing you might want to look at is how you found out she has a boyfriend. If someone else told you and she hasn't mentioned it, it's a huge IOI. On the flipside a lot of HBs use the 'I have a boyfriend' thing to disqualify guys very quickly. Either way, it does sound like she's into you.

I'd recommend putting her on a point system, with the promise of some hardcore palm reading if she can get to 20 points.

Have her jumping through hoops for a few days to earn points... give them and take them away etc... and when she's on 15 say, 'hey, you wanna know how to get the last 5?'

Then suggest that if she buys you lunch/drink (your call) then she'll get 5 points and you can do the palm reading at the same time as the meeting.

If she's into you and you play it right, she WONT mention her boyfriend again. The only time she would, if things went perfectly, would be right before sex... and guess what, same as before, it's only a big deal if you make it so! She'll say it before sex because it removes some of her guilt for doing it... if she can tell you and you're ok with it then she wont feel so bad... in her head anyway!

Oh a quick game I like to play:

PUA: Hey, I bet I can read your mind
HER: No way!
PUA: I can, I bet you can think of any number between 1 and 100 and I'll be able to guess what it is first time...
HER: Yeah right!
PUA: Ok, I'll get you a drink if I get it wrong, but you have to pay if I get it right first time.
HER: Deal!
PUA: So think of a number between 1 and 100, remember I can only accept your first answer so don't change your mind.
<wait a few seconds>
PUA: Ok are you thinking of one now?
HER: Yep!
PUA: Great I knew you were thinking of 1
HER: Wait I thought you meant....
PUA: Remember the rules! I can only accept your FIRST answer!
HER: Lets go to bed! (perhaps not but you'll get the drink!)

Hope that helps,

Ocean