Guy's,

I just want to get some opinions on my Friday night. I went out to a Club in south east london, with the idea of just having a laugh with my two brothers... no Gaming...

but when I went into the place I found myself attracting woman. I didn't even need to talk to them. I just danced like a complete idiot having a laugh, saw that they were watching and just motioned for them to come over...

Anyway, while I was talking to one of these girls I noticed 2 HB6's and a HB8 walk in and sit across from me. Instantly, I noticed the HB8 change seats so she was facing me and kept smilling at me. I smiled back and then went to the bar.

When I came back, they were dancing right next to were my brothers where so I thought I'd test them and went and sat in a booth just off the dance floor... within 2 mins, they were in the booth facing me so I thought I'd open with:

'You do know you can talk to me... you dont have to follow me like a stalker'...

One of the HB6's said 'she really fancy's you' pointing to the HB8 sat next to her. I took it as a good sign that she didn't deny her interested and quicky said to the HB6...

'so your telling me that you dont fancy me??? come on, I know both of you like the look of me'...

The HB6 then said 'but she's got a boyfriend'...

I took this as a shit test so I said 'So?!?!'... I honestly couldn't think of anything else at the time.

Then I started talking to the HB8. Found out her name was Gail... and that was really all I did find out. Another one of her mates came along crying shortly after and she was pulled away by her other mates and said they were going.

I thought fuck it... but within 30 seconds, she popped her head round the booth and blew me a kiss... IOI

So I quickly got up and she was waiting outside the toilets for her friends. I said something to her (can remember what) and then asked for her number.

Her friends were now out the toilets and were behind her and before I knew anything, she was kissing me. I honiestly didn't see it coming. I remember one of her friends screaming (I think prob because of the boyfriend thing (maybe not a shit test)) and they pulled her out the club.

So I didnt get her number... But, did she really like me?? and what should I of done better??

Sometimes you have to be flexible about the "closes." In fact, sometimes you shouldn't even think about the number-close. I believe this was one of those times.

She was SNL material there. No number, no strings attached. The biggest thing to deal with would be the obstacles (her friends). This is where wingmen would have been useful. Either that or running solid set game to win over her friends so that they trust you with isolating the target. Either way it's a tough challenge.

Then there's always the option of running enough game (without kiss-closing) to discreetly number-close her and start an entire sexual relationship with her where she's sneaking around on her boyfriend with you, but that sounds like it could get REALLY messy. I personally wouldn't take that route, but it's a possibility.

What I would have done was run another set and/or pick another target. Live in the moment.