I am actually still confused about what the hell happened last night. For those you of you curious go read the FR, if you're not just keep reading. I actually conquered a heavy LJBF on accident. And it really strikes me because there was no attraction up until this point and it really was just a comfortable friendship between the two of us.

Here's the FR link hookup-with-ljbf-then-lmrd-the-fuck-vt25104.html

Here's the text convo that happened like 5 minutes ago (and I am stumped, what the fuck):

Beschatten: Do you remember last night?

HB: Yes

HB: I take it that you do too.

Beschatten: I wasn't drunk.. lol

HB: Me neither

Beschatten: Uh Oh

HB: What?

Beschatten: Is there a mutual attraction between us?

HB: What if there was... would it be weird?

Beschatten: No. I just never saw it coming

HB: Hahaha Oh Beschatten... you're so cute


The fuck? Let's go over some history, we met last year in college. We were friends. I made sure we stayed friends. I told her all the girls I fucked, all my relationship problems, joining the PUA community, my FRs and all the girls I fucked, and this is some sweet southern bell-virgin that finds all this attractive. I honestly am stumped. Oh yeah, I fucked one of her close friends too on her couch. And she knows this as well. I honestly need a breakdown on all this because I've been nothing but a sarcastic asshole this entire time and one night after not seeing her for 2 months did all this, mind you I did have 'intentions behind everything' [learned from IN10SE's Speed Rapport book] but I just wanted to see if it worked. I don't know if that's what set it off or somehow (Mirroring her heavy breaking, soul gazing with intent, kino escalation with intent, and sexual enery) or by being a player/asshole/douchebag/college fuck up gave me value to someone the complete opposite of me.

Oh yeah, and she created attraction for me by LMRing me. I can't believe I got LMR'd over and over and fucking over again. It was fun though. I like a challenge. Any tips on overcoming a heavy LMR is welcome as well. And a fucking psycho-analogical breakdown of what the fuck is going on would be nice as well so in case of myself ever getting LJBF, I can destroy it.

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I don't understand what you're confused about. This all sounds very believable to me.

I didn't do anything, that's why I'm so confused. I did nothing and there was such a strong LJBF shield that It's suprising that something like this happened out of the blue; in a matter of 15 seconds, it all just gets knocked down.

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Isnt it obvious what you did?
- U didnt show interest in her
- U showed and proved high value
- u showed pre selection
- u probably showed alpha attitude just by ur nature

Thats 4 things a lot of the people on this forum try to do when they PU.

Okay? I don't think those four points can bypass the fact that I fucked her really good friend on her couch, she KNOWS I'm a PUA, she knows I fucked a lot of chicks. And she is... A southern bell that's a virgin. I guess she wants to take a gamble on me.

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What do you mean? That's pre-selection.

She knows a part of your "secret" life that hardly anyone else knows about. There's a shitload of rapport right there. She knows you don't go around telling this shit to everyone, so she knows (at least subconsciously) that you won't go around telling everyone that she's another notch on your belt.

Her being a Southern Belle virgin has nothing to do with this. Except for the fact that it's kinda hot. Oh, and I wouldn't really wanna do a virgin. Messy business.