Hi Guys,
I have been very crap with women in the past. Now after years of learning I have become quite successful. Here are a few tips for you all:
Dating Advice 1:
The first 3-4 dates are very important. Dating is like a game. If you play it right, you should have been able to escalate to kissing and more. You see within this time frame, the girl decides whether or not it is worth it. If you have not escalated during these dates, you will very like get into the LJBF (let just be friends) category and getting out of it my friends is near to impossible
Dating Advice 2:
Make the dates interesting. Avoid the usual dating scenes like cinemas, clubs and bars. Be unpredictable. Go for ACTION dates – these are dates with a lot of activity. A key word here is VENUE CHANGE. There are a few reasons for this. When you change scenes a lot in a date, subconsciously we feel we have spent a lot more time with the other person and make’s it more interesting. One example is I take some of my dates to places like IKEA, we walk around trying out the sofas, beds, pretend we are husband and wife in the kitchen etc… its childish yet they love it.
Dating Advice 3:
For crying out load, STOP with the gifts such as flowers and chocolates. Why? You have known each other briefly, and doing things like that comes off as SEEKING APPROVAL, and comes off as suspicious. You could do these things after you are in the relationship, and want to show your appreciation, but too early, and you will KILL the attraction.
Dating Advice 4:
Not knowing you are the MAN and she is the WOMAN. As the man you will take the lead. Being a leader has many attractive qualities. Back in tribal times, the leader takes the choice of all the females. This has not changed, and these days women is stilling looking for those qualities in a man.
Dating Advice 5:
When a woman dates a man she is thinking “he seems nice, let’s find out more about each other”. Many guys view dating a woman as their potential WIFE. As you can imagine this puts a lot of pressure on the guy. They become frigid and can BE THEMSELVES. My advice is DON’T DO IT. Have the same view as the woman. You are screening her to see if she is worth it. So relax, be laid back and enjoy yourself.
Dating Advice 6:
STOP with the needy COMPLIMENTS.
“Oh, you’re so beautiful today”
“Wow so gorgeous”
These kind of compliments send shivers down a woman SPINE people. You are there to find out more about each other and have fun. Dating her just because she is beautiful and gorgeous comes both lowers your standards and is an insult to intelligent women. DON’T DO THAT. If you want to give a compliment, give something sincere and genuine. Always include a reason for doing so. For example, “I like your top; it goes very well with the colour of your dress”.
I could go on and on about things to do and not to do with dating women. I have only touched on some of the issues…
Bantermania aka NightVision
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London Lair
http://www.seductiontuition.com
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