Is it just me or is it fucking unattractive when you find out a girls slept with a shit ton of guys. For some reason that apalls me and I automatically assume her vagina is loose and I won't enjoy it. I like morals. My thoughts are shattered after the breakup. I don't know what to do.

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It's unattractive for a multitude of reasons.

This is somewhat based upon your own promiscuity as well. The more promiscuous you have been, the more you will accept it in others. Not saying that it is something you should strive for, merely observing that part of your feelings of disgust are most likely based upon your own smaller sexual past and will most likely change with time and experience.

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Doesn't bother me - and why should it? Having a lot of partners doesn't make her a bad person. You're living by the rules and morals set in place by society and the whole idea of this community is to show you that everything society has taught you about women is wrong. Open your mind.

The whole "oh no her vagina will be loose thing" is just plain silly. Ever heard of elastic memory? Besides, it has nothing to do with how much sausage she's had in there so don't jump to conclusions. I've slept with girls who have had a LOT of partners, and my last LTR was with a girl who had 2 children... they were very enjoyable indeed. On the other hand, I've been with girls who have had very little experience and they weren't nearly as tight.