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PostPosted: Mon Jun 16, 2008 12:21 pm 
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So this girl just started working at the restaurant I work at as a host, i'm a server. She's cute tall 5'9 I'm 6'1 but still tall for a girl.

So i neg the first time I see her "you're kind of tall for a host I think, I think the ideal height is 5'5." Which is untrue 5'8-10 are my tyope of girls.

I have a relatively high social proof at my restaurant so that shows, but I dlv all the time and people just think im better than them. i even say im the worst server, i suck at waiting tables, people ask for a new waiter cause im ugly, if only i was 6'4 id get better tips are all among the ways I indirectly show dhv.

So that was the first day all i said to her was she's too tall in nutshell. Today she is working again, i ignore her, she ask why am i ignoring her if it's causes she's too tall. i told her i was too busy, and that im an incompetent server.

She starts kino, she's laughing, I even get her to feel emotions for me. Sounds weird I know, but I told her I got a 2 tip on a 104 bill and she did enough emoting for a whole restaurant staff, had to tell everyone how mad she was about that. i really didn't get a 2 tip.

I ask her what's she was doing tonight, told me she's playing beerpong with her roommates and I should come over. Cool i said ill call her after i get off.

I get off get some food go home and change. She lives down the street 2 blocks from me so I call her. She invites me over. 2 guys 2 girls are already there.

girl from work has a guy there that looks like he might be a fb, and the other girl seems prudish and has a bf. Ahh what the hell I'll play some bp anyways. I was the amog and I didn't have to say anything really
maybe my entrance or I don't know what it was. both girls were paying attention to me the whole time. So I ignore my target, and she is constantly doing things to get attention. I figured the guy might be a fuck buddy so I gave her no attention. She kept bending over in front of me, took her sweater off in a seductive way said ridiculous things said i was her favorite server

I figured she was just doing this to get attention, so i gave her none, she comes inside, one of the guys stays in the garage, and she goes back out there. They end up hooking up in the garage, then on the kitchen floor, then back to the garage.

I planted the bf destroyer with the prudish girl cause i was bored.

But how can I tell if a girl is an attention whore like this or is interested, because I thought by her giving me her number she'd be interested, the kino. I mean I'm not going to do anything with her now cause I heard her hooking up in the next room but for future with other girls?

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PostPosted: Mon Jun 16, 2008 3:14 pm 
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She left because you did nothing. You could say she gave up on you. Not giving her enough attention was a good way to get her attracted to you but you should have given the dog a taste of the bone. she obviously wanted you and you should have done some major kino back, like have her sit on your lap and then push her off for any reason what so ever. It is a really good Push Pull technique.


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 16, 2008 6:04 pm 
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So this girl just started working at the restaurant I work at as a host, i'm a server. She's cute tall 5'9 I'm 6'1 but still tall for a girl.
To bad your a lesbian as you be perfect height for me. :lol:
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But how can I tell if a girl is an attention whore like this or is interested, because I thought by her giving me her number she'd be interested, the kino. I mean I'm not going to do anything with her now cause I heard her hooking up in the next room but for future with other girls?
You ignore the girl way to much to the point that you where sending mix singles to the girl. Which is why the girl in question was not exactly flirting with you, but was kinda showing sings of interest. As she was unsure of what you where doing. To tell if a girl is an attention whore or not, just look for signs of her demanding attention from others. Its pretty easy to spot them. The girl you where going after was not one.

In the future don't ignore the girl so dam much. That is one of the worst things you can do. Its one thing not to show interest, its another to complete ignore the girl. Also I don't know where you live, but if you live in a place like Los Angeles, you may want to try picking up girls at a gay bar as you will have a better chance to get a girl and two you will be able to learn the signs a girl shows that she is interested in another girl. As I bet there are some differences in how a girl shows interest in a guy compare to a girl.


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 16, 2008 7:07 pm 
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Here are some of your problems that you need to correct:

1) fucking stop DLVing yourself at work. JUST DON"T FUCKING DO IT!

2) The girl was begging for you and you kept ignoring her. Guess what? A girl is going to replace your ass if you don't give IOIs back. You reward good behavior with a IOI yourself. You didn't give her any IOIs so she took the next guy in line. You lost out on your spot.



It's funny to watch some guys play themselves right out of some pussy. Much like this guy did. How can you tell she's interested?

1) signs she gave you at work
2) told you to call her
3) invited you over to house
4) gave you more IOIs at her house


Are you blind or is Stevie Wonder your coach?


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 16, 2008 9:27 pm 
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lol.

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PostPosted: Mon Jun 16, 2008 10:54 pm 
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It's funny to watch some guys play themselves right out of some pussy.


Well put, you have to be able to tell when its time to move form A1,A2,A3,C1,C2,C3,S1,S2,S3.. It sounds like you could have bagged her, however you able to get past A3

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PostPosted: Tue Jun 17, 2008 12:07 am 
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I'm sorry that happened to you. Before I knew anything about PUA I was very much the same way, I ignored the girls that were very interested and kept sending mixed signals, eventually they ended up with other guys. I also purposefully DLV'd myself. Always DHV and reward when necessary.


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 17, 2008 12:54 am 
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It's funny to watch some guys play themselves right out of some pussy. Much like this guy did.
You do realize that trackjunkie is a lesbian right?


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It's funny to watch some guys play themselves right out of some pussy. Much like this guy did.
You do realize that trackjunkie is a lesbian right?
Same difference. :lol:


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