I dont know about you but i find it 100 times harder to pick up a girl over the net. Im not bad in the real world, but when it comes to the internet i dont know where im going wrong, i've read tips but most only tell you the obvious, i only use sites that are free but im told the pay for sites are much better, is this true, im pretty new to internet so its a whole new ball game for me. I mean like what are the best things to write in a profile and to say when mailing, best sites etc. Any advice on this?

Honestly, the sites I've paid for didn't pan out for me. Either the interest generated ending up being trash or spam, or no one in my area, or people were just plain flaky.

It IS possible to make it work. I would suggest David DeAngelo's stuff to learn that.

i have no idea where you live but online dating is more successful the larger the city. In addition, my guess is that you talk to people differently in emails and online than in person and over the phone. This can make things awkward... when trying online especially if using a dating site you need to first have a good picture of yourself.. that's about 90% of it because most chicks won't give you a second look if you don't have a good picture or none at all for that matter.

Other than that.. it seems you fine in real life so you really shouldn't even bother with online dating unless you're looking for a serious relationship and are having trouble.

my advice, keep sarging in real life and move to a larger city

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LOL, it's not always practical or easy just to move to a larger city anytime you want though.

There is no assurance in online dating life. It's just like as game of chance but it’s also fact that there are lots of singles waiting for you. I was using okcupid.com with some following basics of internet dating and I won my game online.

First of all, Your profile can tell much more about you so you need to make your profile very well with your updated pics. Try to search in google for profile tips and you will get enough tips.

Second thing is screen name:
Use screen name which you like and feel confident to use it. It would be better if you choose something unique.

Don’t ignore anyone’s profile before you send message. Try to read it completed and ask about the things which seem to be interested in profile.

Your conversation is the most powerful element to present yourself. Try to make your conversation as simple as possible so it will be easy to reply back who is the other side of the screen.

Talk about things which are common in both of you. This way tries to highlight that there are so many things in common.

Last but not least is being confident. Self-confidence is one of the best attractive characteristics. It’s simple, you like yourself then other will also like you...