I have a girl who I am in a semi-LTR with. We are on and off, but you get the jist. (We all have them right?)

Anyway, she's very sweet, but she calls me nearly every night. And for us a conversation lasts 1 hour minimum, and up to about 4 hours.

I'm really happy to have someone I connect with like that in my life, but it's a bit oppressive. I want to chat to her, but maybe every 2-3 days so it doesn't take a chunk out of every evening.

At the moment I am making excuses for not calling her back when she calls me, but that's not right.

I know that if I talk to her about it she will take it so personally and chances are it will be a big problem. If I cut down the length of the calls she will think we are not compatible anymore or I am being rude.

Anyone got any tips for keeping slightly needy girls at arms length when needs be without causing problems? Would be much appreciated.

Just tell her that you think calling ever couple days would be a good idea so you can both have more personal time and then you have a bit more to talk about when you do talk.

Apparently she's pretty into you so you run the risk of her thinking you are no longer interested. There's no easy way to go about something like that without letting her down some.

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