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Look honestly, the easiest way, is to go out with your friends to a amusement park and just have a fantastic day, let go of everything, your not there for chicks just to chill and do all the rides! and then you have a genuine fun story to tell to someone! Which is important for your game!
Now approach anxiety is a process. We all have it, i don’t want to sound like a parrot repeating myself, but i recognise it as just a short coming. Its something i have.. no big deal.. whatever! all men have it. And I'm allowed to be a little afraid. Hey if DavidX can be, the guy has testicles the size of Jurassic park, if that man can feel it then anyone can.
In my head ive prioritised it to the side, its not major thing its just something that is, and there is a process to make sure i get over it. My main priority is my game, not the approach anxiety, whatever im scared of women they know that.. so who gives!
Just go open, be like hi.. whatever your opener is, yeh your still nervous during it, thats natural, next, do another opener, drop some value and your into your game.
Its a thing that has a process to it that takes care off it, its hard to explain in words. Prioritise approach anxiety and the initial meet as useless. Its only going to last like what a minute or something, then you have your other pending game bullshit and around 7 hours of comfort to do after!
get that in your head first.
Realise that women like men, they enjoy meeting men, they get Horney and gigly very fast if you give them attention. Even if your a little shy, because there are more women then men, and chicks like the cock. Women honestly dont get so much attention as we think they do. Not by cool guys, who have cool stuff to say. Mostly by old men who actually do get their numbers, because no one else is doing the approaching that day. Sad isnt it? I saw a old timer score a hb8.5, he was 60, she was 28.
Learn to sit back and don’t expect to always go go go, let her contribute a little, wait for her contribution, if you have to have a small awkward moment then okay cool. But you should have a contingency to deal with any awkwardness, for instance you run out of things to say, then you notice her dress, say something like,
"ive never been clothes shopping for chicks before! You know if they put me in a position to buy a girl a present id probably get her something horrible! is there a certain technique to how you dress? I was watching something about pink the other day, the singer, a tv documentary, and she says she dresses in a particular way, but no one really gets it.. also later in the clip they said that all women have a particular style but these days i see alot of women following the same thing! what do you recon?"
I’ve given away something very good there, just to help you talk, i know its hard man, look your not the only one, i had to go through this shit too. And every time i go sarging, i have to get myself in that state, i feel what you feel, same as everyone here! its tough, but you gotta get over it! Are you going to be afraid of women all your life? is that the type of man you will allow yourself to be? offcourse not!
The whole idea is to get in a talkative state, maybe do some day game before you do night game. Sarge the mall, even if its basic openers, to get your mouth moving, and add ontop of it! Later you can story tell how you meet some crazy girl in the mall who wore a similiar skirt and you can impro. Get used to relaxing and having fun, before you do any of this! let go of everything, just have fun, do what you wanna do, forget women for a while, forget this game! just go out for a week and have fun with your friends! Take it off, holiday mode!
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