Up til know ive known that body language is important but never saw the power it had til this evening.

This will be a a small excerpt from a semi FR i will post in the PMZ with some pics...

"...So the guy from melting pot meets my friends at the bar we are at about 30mins after we arrive. Hes a cool guy, i start chatting with him. As we are talking i notice kinda behind me and off to the side a bit a chick who is obviously about to apraoch me. Now ive been using good body language the whole time and as im looking towards her i make EC. I can tell right away shes not my "type", that im not attracted to her, so what do i do?

I break EC turn my body slightly away back towards the guy im talking to....to my amazement she stops dead still, does a 180 and aborts her aproach...even the dude was like holy shit that was amazing, that chick was comming over to talk to you and you shut her out without saying a word. I smiled brushed it off and kept talking.

So whats so special, this was the first solid example of cause and effect i saw with my body language...i was in power and chose how the interaction would take place just based on my body language...i was floored, not only that a guy with seemingly no concept of PUA noticed it immediatly too."

Kinda an excerpt from a FR that will basically be uneventful, as i was out for a bday celebration not to sarge. Had the bar we went to not sucked completely i woulda opened but it was hands down the lamest place i had been...the music was soo loud that high notes literally hurt ears, and the dj was a moron playing a bunch of chick songs that even the ladies made poop faces at. In anycase the body language example i thought was excellent...i was amazed at it because i just acted...didnt think about it just knew i didnt wana talk to her.

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-Ka-
"Be the same, only better."

Nice work and example. BL is powerful, more then most know. I see the focus is mostly only systems and formulas and like everything we forget about building our base. But if you make a good foundation, the rest falls into place. If the rest of the structure fails, you still have the foundation to fall back on. Good work.

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Yea i knew body language was important before...but now i see the real power...i mean if i can convey to a girl im not intrested without saying a word...what else can i convey in a positive light with just my body language.

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-Ka-
"Be the same, only better."

hey i read the whole FR and i must say i totally agree with you. I believe that body language is one of the most important parts to being a socially sound guy.

Body language is huge. I pay a lot of attention to my body language and other people's body language and the greatest feeling is when you can impose superiority upon someone else based solely on your body langauge. It's cool to see their reactions and see them basically submit themselves to you.

I've been reading a lot about BL in general, but do you guys recommend any good resources to learn more about BL that will help on the field?

The best thing to do is to observe.

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Not a PUA just a girl offering my opinions/advice

it is very true even by watching Fight Club you can see the way brad pitt walks!!i always walk with my shoulders back and head high never hands in pockets let them swing by themselves shows a sign of confidence!!

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Exactly, goto a crowded place and just watching interactions, think to yourself who is dominent here and whos submissive (only taking into account thir BL)

Also, if you have a solid example of a Alpha male in your life, watch thier BL, look how thier body reacts to situations.

I have only skimmed the surface of reading material for BL but i have learned alot just from watching and observeing. The example i posted was the first time i saw a tangible result from BL...it felt amazing.

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-Ka-
"Be the same, only better."

Find me a better example of body language then Brad Pitt in Fight Club then I will be shocked!

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Look at the way the PO Lice walk around there trained to walk around to look dominant!!!

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here is a question i have; when a girls starts brushing/playing with her hair when she first meets you is that an indicator of attraction? this will happen maybe 8 out of 10 girls i make ec with a talk to. i do have very bright green eyes and a lovely smile (im not trying to brag LoL)

Coolwhip, this is indeed a Indicator of Interest (IOI). It means she's attracted you, or atleast interested!

Back to the topic; Bodylanguage is so powerfull! It's really cool and fun to watch the BL of other people. I once were standing in front of my school and this HB9 was walking towards me. I putted up alpha male BL and after that she didn't even looked me in the eyes anymore (I know she's very shy, but very attractive (she was like frigging ugly a few years ago)). She constantly was looking to the ground.

Just curious but whats that have to do with the original post?

I didnt mind so much when people started discussing unrelated BL stuff...but this isnt a post about IOI's, either create one about it or search for one.

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-Ka-
"Be the same, only better."