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As I've been pouring over all the PUA stuff, I've come to the conclusion that: All of this pick up stuff is just copying movie stars/soap stars. CUZ THAT'S WHAT WOMEN WATCH! They swoon over Johnny Depp, Leonardo, Pitt, the Days of Our Lives hunks...etc etc. So just mimic what those actors do and you're golden! I mean...if a girl wants to bed a man...just act like a porn star! Right? Cuz that's what we watch.
1. Pay attention to decaprios eyes in the clip. Pay attention to how he is looking at her. What's the feeling behind that eye contact? Can you find that feeling within yourself and show it to a girl through your eyes? Learn how.
2. Pay attention to his body language. He's facing her. He's showing he's very interested in her and not the least bit interested in the dude she's with. He acknowledges him but brushes him off quickly. Staying focused on her.
3. Pay attention to his tone. The way he uses his voice to make her feel certain emotions. Again, figure out how to find that "sexy place" within yourself and talk to girls this way. My guess is your mother didn't raise you to speak to women this way so it's going to feel uncomfortable at first.
The whole idea of "PUA techniques" is fake it until you make it. If you understand what Jordan Belfort did with his salesmen, it's pretty much the exact same thing. He taught them how to talk like him... so rich people would believe them and invest with them.
How you talk to people has a bigger influence on their opinion of you than what you're actually saying. If you notice is the clip, he just keeps asking her if she's ever been on a jet ski. But he's still hitting on her. Point being, it's not what you say... it's how you say it.