Have you ever had girls ghost on you?

I've dealt with this. So have my girlfriends.

One big grand conclusion drawn out of this- he's not worth it/ she's not worth your time.

Same for a girl, guys. If she flakes on you, if she ditches you, if she acts all happy then disappears out of the blue, just drop her.

Now, 1 instance, okay, maybe he or she had a legit excuse....bust still, is it that hard to text/call?

But here's why I think so many women (and men) get stuck on 'disappearing' people.

Let's say you've messaged a few times, then your date ditches your first date together. I don't think those few messages are enough time to allow for a deeper connection. So if he or she comes around again, you're going to be like, nah, no thanks.

But if you've known this person for a while, have seen them, have gone out on a few dates, developed a deeper connection, and then he or she disappears on you, that's when a lot of women ('cause I've seen this time and again) get stuck on these guys and give them another chance.

So these guys appear, then disappear, then appear, then disappear. And women will make tons of excuses for these guys, like, oh, he was just busy, oh, he had family issues, oh, this and that. Once a woman really likes a guy, she will make a shit load of excuses for him.

Until one day, she either gets fed up with his behavior and drops him or finds an amazing guy that treats her a thousand times better.

I've seen this with guys too, but it usually affects those guys that haven't had much experience, the 'virgins', the fragile guys, etc.

Moral of the story.

Just move on. No matter how busy or whatever issues a person may have, it takes less than 5 minutes to text/call. So their excuses are most likely BS.

Cat and mouse game, immature and I don't like it.

I only use it with women I'm not sure I'm interested in.

When I spot that behaviour I move on unless I really like her, then I confront her directly (face to face) and tell her I don't like it and ask the reason for it.

Wait, you don't like that behavior yet you use it? Really now?

I think men do that to keep the door open so to speak. Because if he mans up and straight up tells her, "Hey, listen, I've got issues/ I'm not interested", he knows he's going to lose her for good.

But if he disappears, it may leave the door open for a comeback.

This type of behavior is very immature.

Because even if I'm not that much interested I'd still keep them orbiting.

And yes I agree it's immature, it's like Mystery gimmickry.

Lesson from OP: it's okay when women do it, not when men do it.

The reality is, when women sleep with a guy, she has to justify it. Guys, this is why it is so important to bang the girl you pick up that same day/night. Treat her well. But whatever shit her family/friends make up as reasons to get rid of you? She will ignore virtually always. Not seeing a guy she slept with means admitting her judgment is poor, and ego prevents that shit from ever happening.

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These hos ain't loyal

Who cares?

Are we still at the point of manipulating people and playing with their emotions to keep them coming?

World is full of women that can be genuinely interested in you, and you can mutually be genuinely interested in.

What's the fuckin point of all that bullshit?

Adding numbers to your collection?

Where did I state that? I said it's NOT okay for either party to do it. Period.

Ask yourself that. You're the one that does that to keep women orbiting.

if i am working i wont reply until i get back home,or at a lunch brake,i don't waste my days having my face glued on my phone,if i don't reply,it means either that i haven't heard it ringing,or i was doing something else,like walking my dogs out,training,reading,sleeping etc,sometimes i don't feel like texting with anyone,so i wont reply,nothing to do with making someone overthink what am i doing and why am i not answering,there is exception on 1 girl,but reasons for that are the extreme neediness from her side,after i told her that nothing is going to happen,she still pursues and asking things like am i mad at her,why don't i feel like talking etc,in situations like this,i don't feel like texting back and forth

Wow. So you're telling me people that ghost are not worth my time?

Amazing. I have never thought about it like that before.

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This is for the guys on here that keep posting threads about the same girls for months on end.

No need to visit threads created by me. Nobody is forcing you to.

When you voice your opinion you open yourself up for criticism.

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I don't manipulate people tho with disappearing acts tho

I always show and give respect.

So do you.