YOU were not rejected. 'HE' was instead.



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cunning_stunt
PostPosted: Wed Oct 12, 2016 7:54 am 
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There's something that helps to give me comfort and positivity through many of the rejections I have had recently and over the years and I wanted to share the thought here.

In short, when we go on a date and get rejected - we feel that 'we/you' have been rejected but more often than not you havent.

You know that feeling when you get on the date.. she's really good looking, you are trying not to fuck it up.. you want to be seen as a cool guy. but what comes out is not the amazing/authentic you.
Girls can smell nerves like the government can smell unpaid tax.

Who you are when you are amongst friends and family, and who you are when you go on a first date is usually two different people. So the point I am making is that if you have been nervous and not your full self on a date and were rejected... it wasnt really you who has rejected, but that nervy guy within you that keeps showing up on your dates.

Deal with you inner self. Woman cannot resist confidence.

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DJ_Z
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Wrong.

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Who you are when you are amongst friends and family, and who you are when you go on a first date is usually two different people.
I'm rejecting both of you.

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Was SHE rejecting you instead of "HER"?

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There's something that helps to give me comfort and positivity through many of the rejections I have had recently and over the years and I wanted to share the thought here.

In short, when we go on a date and get rejected - we feel that 'we/you' have been rejected but more often than not you havent.

You know that feeling when you get on the date.. she's really good looking, you are trying not to fuck it up.. you want to be seen as a cool guy. but what comes out is not the amazing/authentic you.
Girls can smell nerves like the government can smell unpaid tax.

Who you are when you are amongst friends and family, and who you are when you go on a first date is usually two different people. So the point I am making is that if you have been nervous and not your full self on a date and were rejected... it wasnt really you who has rejected, but that nervy guy within you that keeps showing up on your dates.

Deal with you inner self. Woman cannot resist confidence.
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Shame about all the trolling here. Would be really good if anyone knew enough to give a breakdown of why they didnt agree.

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Shame about all the trolling here. Would be really good if anyone knew enough to give a breakdown of why they didnt agree.
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There's something that helps to give me comfort and positivity through many of the rejections I have had recently and over the years and I wanted to share the thought here.
Here's the main problem, right here.
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Who you are when you are amongst friends and family, and who you are when you go on a first date is usually two different people.
You point out that this is a continuing problem that you have. You've identified that you are not being yourself in order to impress the girl. The problem is that you're not addressing your problem.
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Deal with you inner self. Woman cannot resist confidence.
This is you contradicting yourself. You say that you, specifically, get comfort with you not being rejected, but the act that you put on is what's being rejected. Confidence in yourself is not putting on an act.

Hopefully, this helps you understand why I didn't agree.

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PostPosted: Wed Oct 12, 2016 10:35 pm 
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No you were rejected.

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