It's been a few hours since I have been exposed to this, and I decided to create a topic to share some drama.

Starring:
- Wifey (Lexy)
- Friend 1 (Jax)
- Friend 2 (Alex)
- Friend 3 (Dean)

To give you guys an as similar as possible experience to what I had, I will reiterate this story 1st person style. So you will in my position, the listener, and I will be in this dude's position, the narrator. You ready? here we go:

"This happened a few years ago when I first met my wife. I started playing WoW (World of Warcraft) in about 2004. Casually for a few years. I met a couple of people only and we spent much time together. Cool group of people. I had made many friends. Among them, Dean. I had great fun with Dean and we were what you could call the best in what we did. We chatted a lot about all kinds of random stuff together with his real life friend, in game, and on SPAM. All going pretty well.

When I got to the age of 19, chest hair sprouted, I got called to the millitary service for a full year. 362 days. At the end of which, I reconnected with Dean and invited me back into the game. It was that day, a year later, in a group of players, I had heard her voice the first time. Lexy. She was in the group with Dean and so was her bf. I didn't get interested in her then partly because it was silly to fall in love with a girl over a video game and she was also taken. I was a man of honor. No cheating and stuff like that.
We kept playing. Weeks went by and Dean invited me to go hang out with him and some of the other players, in real life, at his house. We had a great time, I talked to many of them including Lexy. I didn't feel anything for her though, no feelings there.

Further down the road Dean decided to have another meet up. This time I spent some time trying to invite Lexy and her boyfriend too. It would be a fun time! And even offered them a ride in my BMW. But her dude wasn't having any of it. Didn't wanna go. But Lexy said fuck it yo, and she came along. I started up my shiny red waxed pussy magnet BMW and headed to a town next to me. Picked up a friend and also Lexy and went to Dean's house. Lotta alcohol was consumed that weekend. Lexy was a few months away from 18, I was 20. She soon started sharing that she is going through a very bad time with her boyfriend and even contemplating a breakup for a while now. Oh no..
During the meetup it was pretty obvious she had the hots for me, and I admit, I gave her the nod. Good looking young woman, playing some warcraft, actually wanted to have sex. WITH ME. What more could a WoW nerd dream of? But nothing went down that weekend man. Nothing went down. Just light flirting, back and forth. Despite the bf being absent. But it was close. All I want you to know - it was fucking close. I didn't wanna be the cheat.

Week or two later, Lexy and bf parted ways. She later called me and said "Come. See me". With a raging boner in hand and the other on the gear stick I jumped in the car and drove all the way to her town. We ended up.. doing the deed. She hadn't even moved out of the old apartment she shared with her ex.
RC: Shit. In the man's bed huh? Still lives there bro. Just saying.

Later when she found a new place I helped her move in. Even met her dad. I was introduced as a friend back then. Around 2 months later I moved the fuck in as well and formed The Unity. Lexy was the love of my life. She shared the same music taste, we both liked Games. I could be myself, not worry what she thought of me. No acting. No bullshit. Just pizza, videogames and filthy loving.
Then our relationship started to get real fucking serious. We were sure we would continue the rest of our lives together, we would have kids and play video games with them. Everything would just be a perfect meadow with gumdrop dreams. Lexy started to really have baby fever - 19 - and talked a lot about making that baby. Eventually she made me think along the same lines. We should have a baby, I thought to myself. She's right.
We ended up dropping protection like a big sack of dicks and thought it wouldn't be instapreg, but, alas, boom. Pregnant as fuck. Nailed it. Lexy was still studying. She was to graduate as a Chef.

* At this point I am already thinking man what the fuck. You guys are 20. Fucking glorified teens talking shit about having a baby and ACTUALLY doing so? but I kept on listening. Moving on *

She was due to grad next summer and due to give birth at the end of the same summer. We had known each other for over a year. Ofc I was thinking ti's too early for a kid but decided that she's amazing. Never regretted it even to this day.
I had many meetups with our virtual friends. But the summer of 2015, it went bad. The storm gathers. The first meeting Lexy attended and also the first I organised.
It was crisp. Great success. After the meeting Jax and Lexy started to chat a lot. Ingame. I knew about this and sometimes asked what they were talking about. It was never suspicious, everything seemed kosher. Jax was 25, economics student at the other side of the country for fucks sake. They talked about their childhood and all that boring shit. I didn't wanna listen to that. Plus Jax didn't have a lot of real friends to talk about this shit so I thought it was good for him to have someone to vent to yeah? Talk emotions and shit.
Our son was now 2 years of age and Lexy had decided to start study again in another field of work. It was now when I startedto see the change. She became distant, week after week. Tried to talk to her but she said everything was.. "Fine". It was "Fine".

Two weeks after Lexy had started studying again she attended a "mandatory party". Mandatory party. Yo, it's mandatory right? mandatory party in the middle of the week. Our son had to go to daycare the next morning but I couldn't do that, I had to go to work at 4 in the AM. Daycare opened at 7. At the party Lexy calls as I'm about to crash, WITH OUR SON to my side making sure he was cool.
Lexy: Iii'mm not guna be abl to driv next mornng - As she asked for our friends number - Alex. As she knew he lived in the same city, didn't drink, so he was most likely good. I gave her his number as the plan was that Alex would take our kid to daycare the next morning. Lexy had not been out drinking in over two years - breastfeeding and all - and apparently the beer went to her head. I had no time to worry about it as I had our son by my side.

The following morning I find Lexy and Alex sleeping on the couch. With their clothes on. It's a couch you can't turn into a two man bad. I didn't wake them up and went to work. Fully dressed. Everything looks good, right? It's all good. Clothes are on, belts' fastened, shoes are off but socks are on. All good.

After that day though, Lexy was a different human being is the only way I can describe. She started acted really cold. But everything was ok, she was just really tired. Just tired.
I didn't believe her - I knew something was up but I never suspected anything like cheating or sorts.
I week to our wedding anniversary, Lexy drops the fucking A-bomb on me.
Lexy: I wanna break up.
Lexy: I'm too young for this marriage bullshit. I made a lot of friends when I started studying again. I want to be part of the student life again.
I was stunned.
* So was I listening to this shit*
I tried to change her mind but she was unwavering. She was stone cold. She told me I can't do nothing to change her mind. But she said she would "think about it".

Two weeks later, I'd been depressed. Dropped 10kg. No appetite, having one coffee and two buns while working a physical job for 10 hrs a day.

Day before our anniversary she says she though about it, but we're breaking up. She had given it thought and she said, it was the best for HER. To me this wasn't making any sense. So far we had a solid relationship, we had a two year old kid we has kicking ass and taking names. And then outta the blue she throws the towel. I couldn't get a valid reason for the breakup. She just did - no warning.

She was still staying at the appartment btw, and I was feeling more and more depressed. The reasons were all ridiculous. Like she had to break up with me because I left the laundry to dry too wrinckled up and it was annoying. (???)

I had our car fixed at the car shop that day and stopped for a coffee. I rode my bike there to get it, get some fresh air. So I made some calls.
Called her best friend. She didn't know what the fuck was going on, she was surprised about the breakup. Then I called Alex. Thinking my good friend would know if something happened at the party. He brought her home. After all, everything seemed to change there. So I call and ask "fucks going on bro? the hell happened that night?"

Alex: A'right man.. you deserve to know. Lexy was really drunk. She was giving lap dances and kisses to a guy that night.
Suddenly I felt a gaping void the size of a black hole in my stomach. But it got worse.
Alex continued: Sorry bro. That guy was me.
He then told me they had sex. On the couch. After I had left for work that very morning. And then after he had fucked my wife, he took our son to daycare.
RC: Bro.. dude.. fuck me. Wow. Holy fucking jesus christ. Wow.. I actually feel a little bit sick.

*I'm still having trouble relating this shit. Feel like I've been kicked in the soul*

I was so angry at both, but at the same time I felt relieved. I finally knew why my wife was acting so weird. It put aside ideas that maybe she had become ill or attacked or something like that. For the first time I had some answers. I thanked Alex for being honest and telling me what happened. I returned home.
Lexy had put our son to bed.
Star: Lexy, sit on the couch.
I asked if there was something she wanted to tell me. She said no.
Star: Have you fallen in love with someone else?
She said she had not.
Star: Have you cheated on me?
She sad she had not.
I exploded in anger. Called her a slut. Said she had banged Alex on the fucking couch we were sitting right now. THAT IS HIS CUM STAIN. And that is your splooge. She was stunned with fear. She told me she wanted to take that to the grave and never speak of it. She said she was so embarrassed by what she had done she just wanted to escape. I tried to tell her that I could forgive what she had done and we could continue, but she said she can never look at me again without remembering how much she had hurt me and what she had done.
She discussion got heated. She grabbed her jacket and left the building. My veins were about to burst and yet I decided against physically preventing her from leaving.
I made it very clear that I still didn't want to break up and she could sleep here. She said she would find a place to sleep and stormed off. THAT.. was on our anniversary day.
But wait. It gets worse.

Later on my pc was still open and I saw yet another of our friends on SPAM. Jax. He felt like a friend I could trust so I told him what happened. Her cheating with Alex, whom we both knew. That she had left in the middle of the night when I found out.
Before I went to sleep I sent a text to Lexy saying I hope she'd come back at night. At worried for her safety. She was still the mother of my child.
In the morning I received a text. "I'm safe". I instantly call and she picks up. I ask, "where the fuck are you?". She says she in a different city. A city I knew. A city FUCKING JAX LIVED IN. So I ask again, "where exactly are you?". She told me she was at Jax's house. She had driven EIGHT hours across the FUCKING country, overnight. I couldn't believe my ears. I asked "why the fuck have you done that? what are you doing there?". She said she felt safe there. I continue to ask if she had fucked him too. I told her I'd find out like before if so. She said that yes. She had driven to Jax and fucked him. I asked if he was there now. He was, sleeping beside her.
I could almost smell the fear through the phone when I asked what the fuck was going on with my wife and him. He lied. I told me I knew they banged. That guy was dead to me. And yet even the I was willing to reconcile.
RC: WHAT BRO? WHAT THE FUCK? THERE'S STILL A CHANCE? WHAAAAT? WHHHHHYYYY?????? BECAUSE SHE PLAYS WOW? WHAT THE FUCK! WHAT ARE YOU DOING?
I wanted to keep on fighting and saving. Maybe for our son. Maybe for me. But Lexy said there was no way this was gonna go back to normal. Lexy returned to her parents house and then came by our place while we had the big talk. She had said that her and Jax have been chatting for much longer than I was aware of and about much more than I was aware of.
For several weeks we kept sharing the appartment I kept trying to reconcile. But I couldn't.
*I'm stunned. Dazed. I simply cannot. I just can't. Sitting in silence, listening, being simply incapacitated.*
She said she wanted to live alone and take our son with her. So I looked for a better job with better hours so I'd increase my shot of getting custody. In the meanwhile she says I shouldn't blame Jax and she had told him we broke up and she was available. And yet I HAD JUST TALKED TO THAT FUCK a few hours before. Told him everything. I even told him I still love Lexy even after cheating on me with Alex. And he STILL fucked her.

I moved closer to my parents. Kid would benefit form being closer to his grand parents. She came back while I was signing the papers. She said some words that made sense to me. She said she regrets everything. Alex was a drunken mistake while she was lost in her life. Being a young mom while other of her age were partying out.
RC: Dude what the fuck. What's done is done. If the dicks in her mouth, it's in her mouth.
She said that Jax was another stupid mistake. She was charmed in the moment. Lexy was honestly asking for forgiveness. For me to take her back. I told her go fuck yourself. I found a new place to live and I'm moving out of town.

*Finally fucking finally. I felt much desired justice being served. Finally a moment of breath in this whole fucking mess of a story*

We talked some more and she suggested to finish her studies over summer and she could come to my appartment in the new city and start anew. I was ready to forgive her and move on.
So today I'm telling you guys this story as our relationship is healing and the future does seem better for us. Lexy is moving in in a few months as she finished studies this summer.

The end."

Bet you guys were expecting a different ending? I certainly did. Then I kinda remembered that this guy.. this fucking guy right here - he is 80% of the male population in today's day and age. This is the most horrific story I have ever heard in my entire life, and as such I challenge the board to share theirs.
The standard is set absurdly high, but the iteration above is what you have to outmatch.

I hope you took the time to read this. It has been multiple hours since the experience and I'm still numb on the inside. The most soul shattering part was when the guy took their son to daycare after having fucked his wife, on their couch, in his house.

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Is this TS's original story?

Sad story. It's alarming how most guys accept this kind of crap and conitnue to ride a sinking ship

I was waiting for the part that she the child was her 1st ex boyfriend's..

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Thats fucked up. I think you asked for a fucked up story on here and I mentioned one. Found it for you:


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Haha just realized the original poster said this may be fake

I have a friend (like a brother to me) that had been pussy whipped with his girlfriend for a LONG time. Nobody liked her or the way she treated him. He has a massive argument once time and kicked out of her house.

They suddenly got back together and as a hail Mary, they decided a baby would make them closer to one another. I and the other friends bit our tongues and supported him anyway. The inevitable happened and they broke up. She has the child and prevents from seeing him and he even pays child support. He moved out and lived alone so money was tied up with rent

He tries to get lawyers involved but apparently they are costing him too much so he had to move on with his life. (He is a good father and still loves his son)

Months go by and joins me in the gym. He has this anger built up in him and uses it as motivation and lifts some heavy ass weights and I can tell the self-improvement aspect is actually helping his mindset. He mentions he is ready to start meeting new women and he knows a few stories about me and asked me for my help. I suggested online dating would be a good thing for him (he didn't have many friends to go out with and I didn't want to be too hardcore with pick up with him)

He made a profile and it was really bad. All 4 pics of him was of him drinking by himself in a bar. I mentioned he would need to switch up the pics to avoid looking like a lonely alcoholic and to spice up his dress sense. I take him to the shopping malls and find some decent clothes for his age. Take some pics, change his profile to make it sound like he was the prize. But time and time again, his text game was just needy.

Girls will be raising red flags everywhere and will still want to cheer them up and meet them. I told him he should be more selective and it got to the point where I would text girls for him because the desperation would scare away all his good leads.

It was Xmas and we both lose touch for 2 weeks or so and tells me he seeing a nice girl. Shows me a pic and she was actually quite attractive compared to the mother of his son, she is a part-time hairdresser. He mentions she is a newly single mother and has this issue that some mothers have of not caring about their child. Being a great father he is, he took the role of a step father, quite fast so they were happy with each other I guess. I was a little concerned about this because I felt like there are some red flags in there

Then as you do, he is going through the 'Honeymoon period' and he doing things he wouldn't normally do. Like going to nightclubs on Wed night. It was all her choice and what mother goes out and get drunk on a school night? He then mentions she is doing cocaine.

In the night club, He has an argument with her when she dances with some random dude and then he dances with a girl to make her jealous and he builds his value back. Great work but more hypothetic red flags gathering in my quiver

This goes on for a while. They get pretty serious and they are a proper couple. He seems happy more than he once was so maybe it could be still good for him. Our mutual friends and I are talking that she is big trouble behind their backs so we are all in observation mode with him I guess.

He starts to call her child his daughter which raises some eyebrows but whatever. Some other red flags through the months:

- She caught him looking at a sex ygirl in a shopping mall and she hits him square on the face (He told us he deserved it)

- on his birthday, she bumped in her ex and has an hour long conversation with him and doesn't even intro them. So he sats there awkward. If she was a decent human being, he would tell him it was nice to see him but she is with hef bf on his bday

- lots of sniffing drugs

- She is moving house and he helps her, she has no money but he pays for a lot of Ikea furniture with his own money. The same night she is seen spending the money that she doesn't have on more cocaine. He does the right thing and causes an argument with her. But I guess he eventually forgives

- he lets his ex and her talk on facebook, arguing with one another

- Whilst they were both at a social gathering, I witnessed her looking at guys so they would approach her thinking they have scored so she make her bf insecure

Suddenly he mentions they are going to invest into a mortgage together. I and my friends no longer can hold our tongues and are saying she is bad news for him, but he doesn't want to hear it.

He takes her on holiday together, she even brings her mother too. He is paying for most of it. They meet another English holiday couple out there and become friends with one another and they are nice people. They all get wasted and the girlfriend of the guy goes to bed early and my friend goes to the toilet. He comes back to the seating area and there she is...making out with the guy!

He loses his shit and knocks him out and grabs her by the hair and takes her to the hotel. She passes out. He tried to fly home but there is not a flight that is reasonably priced so they have to stay for 2 days till they fly back on their original flight. So the plane journey, home must of been awkward, especially when her mother is defending her daughter and making out like she isn't in the wrong.

He tells the news to us and we tell her that we knew it all along and to bail. He says we were right the whole time. He then keeps changing his FB status to in a relationship and not with her. Every week so we know he is still giving her his time and affection. We tell him he is fucking stupid and even argues with him, but he is too love-struck.

Finally, he tells us it's over and he moves out into his own place and goes back to dating websites. He meets a nice girl and she is lovely and has no red flags. He then tells us he is going to get his hair cut from his ex-girlfriend because nobody can cut his hair to his requirements. We mentioned that there is more than one hairdresser on the world and a short back and sides is not exactly a rocket science. We knew just wanted to make his ex-jealous by telling her he needs a haircut for 3rd date with the POF date he has later that night.

He has sex with the POF girl and we all congratulate that its good to move on. He then tells us that she looked ugly afterwards and ditched her never to see her again. (We found out half a year later he sex with his ex one hour before he met the POF girl)

At this point, me and my friends pretty much gave up on him. Seems like he needs the drama in his life. He presented her flowers on valentines day to get back with her and gets angry that it didn't fix things. I told him that as long as he rewards her bad behaviour, she going to treat him like a doormat. This seems to get through to him a little.

After many attempts of getting back with her, he gives up. Not taking him back was the only useful thing she did for him. He eventually moves on. He finds a lovely a girl and learns from his past mistake. He is now having a baby and getting married. We have met his current GF and she a good match for him. We often laugh at how retarded he was in the past but we still love him. I am gutted I wouldn't be able to attend his wedding due to my recent move to Asia

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This is just pathetic. She will do it again, over and over, again.

She's got a kid.
She's already reduced her chances of finding a decent man in the future. Not a lot of men are lined up to take a woman, even if she's a bombshell, with a kid.

She's got a whole life ahead and she's already screwed it up. But so did he.

I haven't seen anything like this before happen but I've seen scenarios where a woman think she's got him pussy whipped and she might. But doesn't mean she's going to get another dude pussy whipped just as easily.

And he's an idiot, too.

That he is.

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Ha, I didn't really think these stories existed until I started hearing from a friend of a friend. At the current moment one acquaintance of mine is wanting to marry his girlfriend of 7 years. It's been on and off but you can tell she has been sleeping around with a dude from her gym....she even has a profile picture with him on Facebook, but this guy still wants to marry her....even though he asked her if they did anything and she denied denied denied. But you can tell they have a little thing going on....poor guys.


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