Sometimes i'm on a date and at first the girl is a bit shy. Throughout the date I can feel her getting a bit more cocky etc and sometimes that overwhelms me a little. It's not that I go shy or let them lead, but its nearly pushing in that direction.

I wander if its a chicken and egg situation. Is it more a case of me perhaps showing my more vulnerable side which allows them to feel more dominant, take over and lose interest.. or is that they lose interest and become more cocky/less bothered in the process.

Any thoughts?

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Too vague. What do you mean by her acting cocky? What does she do? What do you mean by showing a vulnerable side?

However, you'll only be dominated if you allow it.

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Not so much about her being cocky, but she grows in confidence, losing the nerves. Not showing a vulnerable side as such but maybe not being as dominant as I should be.

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Sounds less like her challenging you and more her just being comfortable with you. The whole dominant thing doesn't mean a girl is always nervous or scared around you...

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i agree with DJ_Z. the girl is just getting more comfortable, opening up and showing more of her true personality. you have to maintain frame and yes that's a part of dominance but its not only about dominance. as the man you should also lead, which it seems you are doing since she is opening up. as she opens up she will challenge and shit test you to see if you are good enough for her. if you lose frame and let her takeover she loses interest. just keep the convo going, when she talks let her talk. women love talking. just keep leading the convo, throw some sexual innuendos in there, some kino,and your good. stop worrying so much and making it harder for your self.