So I met this girl on a dating website. We hit it off, exchanges many messages, I used c&f, she was interested and qualified, we exchanged extra photos and then numbers.

I e-mailed her my number (leave it alone...i know...this particular site said for the dude to do it so lay off the pua side of this) and she sent a text about 10 minutes later...anxious? I continued it in text this time around (should I have just called when she did this instead?). We vibed for a bit, I said I had a surprise for her, sent another funny picture.

Next day, she went crazy over the pic, called it sexy, etc in an email response. I called that evening, she didn't pick up but texted immediately that she had lost her voice over the weekend (spring break, so I thought it might be plausible...continued it in text). We had a couple good texts, then I let her end it and froze her out for two days.

Two days later (yesterday), I call again and once again goes to voicemail. She texts about 10 seconds after asking if I had called and that her phone was fucked up. I busted on her for the relic of a phone and dodging calls etc...she was responding immediately and I felt good right after about my funny responses....kept frame control.

But here's the thing: I have now called twice, both were not picked up. She did not say she was busy, ignore me (bc she texted back right away both times), and provided what would appear to be plausible excuses. We seemed to vibe very well on the site as well as in the texting. Should I call again soon, in several days, a week, or just freeze her out and let her call me if she's interested? I mean, if she was nonresponsive or just ignored my calls I would know right away to end it now. Any thoughts?

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I don't buy those excuses. It sounds like she's definitely interested, she might be shy or nervous about talking on the phone or meeting in person, so I'd say you've got to put her at ease about that while maintaining the C&F etc that you're running.

its a dude...

Anything is possible, but then they go so far as to have a girl record their cell's personalized no answer msg? I mean, for all I know, it could be.

The reason I like what you said tho, is that it gives me something to use. I can go c&f about that's why she won't talk on the phone...challenge her perhaps before I consider bailing.

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Many girls you will meet on the net are flaky. Deal with it. The prospect of meeting some guy online or the fact that you both know your intentions so their are no games to play, may cause her to get nervous or bail for little to no reason at all. Best advice is to try once more, then move on. I dont deal with flaky girls.