| Well written! As I have said before to others, good game is about generosity, as in giving and offering, not expecting anything. Bad game is the opposite, taking and wanting. At first I thought the guys in that video were harmless and clueless, but they only comment her looks, thus objectifying. And they all have the mindset of wanting something.
However, people complain about harassment, that men treat women badly etc. But no one ever offers a solution. They just complain out of pure negativity. And trust me when I say that once you have fixed it, people will complain about something else instead. Why? Because it lies within our genes to constantly try to improve things. It is not the result that makes us feel good, but the process and the work.
Anyway, we could suggest a school where men learn how to treat women (and PUA is almost such a school). But no matter how hard you try, you can never expect people to have what it takes. It requires self-awareness, intelligence, empathy and more, and some people are simply not wired that way. Some people are plain stupid, to be frank. Sure, you have to try to improve society at least, even if a change may be unrealistic. But I still can't get rid of the feeling that this is just a bunch of negative women whining just about everything, when you can start focusing on positive things instead! So in the end, all I want to say is "get a life"!
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