| If any of you are familiar with the Tao and other eastern religions you will already have a strong idea what I am going to rant about. If not, you should understand anyway, maybe just have to read it twice and do some of your own reading on Taoism.
The majority of eastern religions, mainly Taoism, preach the ideas of "going with the flow" of life. Meaning really, that the key to life is to float through life, relaxed, calm, with very little worries, having your self centered (not being self centered), and being in tune with all aspects of the world around you whether they be to your liking or against your liking...
These religions are not like the religions of our western culture and idea of religion, they are more spiritual and spread the idea that we are all one consciousness who are linked through the "self", not like western religions that say we are all separate entities "egos" who interact with other separate entities in their world. If you also study modern physics, modern biology, and modern chemistry, they all have been leaning towards the idea that we are a part of one single thing, the universe. If you think about it, whether you believe in only science and think we came from the big bang or something along those lines, the big bang is one thing, we all come from one thing. Or if you believe that Jesus Christ was the son of God, we were all created by God, one thing.
Now getting to the point.
Having this mentality of going with the flow will enhance every part of your life, so recently I have adapted it completely to my style of game. I look at the world around me as part of me, part of my mind if you will. Because face it, what you perceive is your reality, which is why we all see the world differently. BUT, you can also consciously change the way women perceive their realities. Which is what we are all here doing in these forums, reading books, and testing out our ideas in our own worlds. We are actively changing the way women see their realities by distorting their perceptions, just as any person does to another person on a daily basis. But, as I said, we are here CONSCIOUSLY doing it, which gives us the edge, and thus creating the pick up artist. Going with the flow of life does several things for your mental health:
1) If you see life as just a ride, and not something so serious that we are taught to see it as. Like people who are materialistic, money chasing, power hungry, etc. I see life as just a ride, and I have a worry free day, no matter what happens. I do not base the value of my life on the size of my wallet, the clothes I wear, the car I drive, or the house I live in. Don't get me wrong, I like to have nice things, but I do not chase them, if I obtain them, I do...whatever. So, when I approach a women, she is honestly, not that important to me. If she doesn't like me, oh well, if she does, great. Now, your outer world reflects your inner world. This is obvious, you can tell when someone has something on their mind, or is angry, or is sad. So if your inner world is at peace, and views life as I ride, women perceive you as such by your outer demeanor. Which works wonders for you enabling you actually be laid back and not the least bit nervous, so you don't have to hide about being edgy when approaching her. If you look at approaching women as a necessity or as some kind of hard feet to accomplish, your going to reflect it in everything that you say or do, no matter how many lines you study or how much you try to sound otherwise. So look at all of this as a "GAME" and it will pay off in more ways than imaginable.
2) Viewing all as one. This mindset will also help you in unimaginable ways, when I look at the world around me, I see me as a part of a whole thing. So I perceive the people, not just the women around me as parts of me, parts of the whole idea of life. This will help those of you who are intimidated/adverted by other men especially, if you see another male as potential threat to you you will fail in the long run. If you see the other males as just a part of you, it is easier to overcome them, its just like pushing yourself to the limit. If you don't get what I'm saying, i mean just outsmart him, don't be worried that he might be better than you, think he is a part of you, if he says something that gets the girls going, BUILD OFF OF IT. You heard it, its now a part of YOUR WORLD, now USE IT! Now for the women, the same applies basically, view her as a part of the oneness of the world. Then, you won't be so intimidated by her. Most women, will talk to anyone who approaches them in a friendly, polite manner. Some will be a bitch, because they are a part of that egotistical, materialistic, pop-culture worshiping, Satan's cock sucking, PEOPLE magazine reading mind-set. But even those can be sarged, just more work. Back to the topic, if you are one with the one world and one life you live in, you will be more successful in any social interaction. Having your SELF centered. Is what is important. Your mental health and strength is the core to your "GAME", whether its the game of life or spitting your game to get laid.
All said and done, what I'm trying to get across is, anyone who is intimidated by social interactions, towards women especially. Just loosen up, and remember...its all a GAME.
*******SOME READINGS YOU MIGHT WANT TO PERUSE
The Tao
The Elegant Universe
Sextrology
The Christ Conspiracy
The Art of Seduction
Aquarius Now
The Universe in a Nutshell
Absolute Zero
The 3lb Enigma
How the Bleep Do we Know
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