Ok so recently ive noticed alot of guys telling people texting should be used to only secure a date and nothing else.

I feel this is wrong extremely wrong. I'm 22 years of age so ive basically been brought up around texting and im sure alot of you older PUA's havent adapted to text game etc and im not meaning to be offensive by that atall.

At the early age of 13/14 when i got my first mobile phone i used text game as a means of communication to girls who i couldnt pluck up the courage to talk to in class/school. This means over the years my text game has adapted more and more until i can almost see a womans facial expressions and body language as she replies to one of my texts. I use texting to get to know someone and gain trust nothing worse than texting someone you have just met to go on a date and all the pressure is there because you dont know much about them.

Texting can be used to find out someones interests/beliefs/build up to a phone call/secure a date when comfort is built/showing attraction via sexual inuendos or sexting if she is down. Im good at texting for example my friend on saturday night let me on his tinder account within half an hour i had 2 numbers of HB8 girls and 2 of them wanting him to take them out.

Dont be afraid to use texting to do more than get a date its the era of technology. cant be stuck in the past anymore everyone should work on text game because it sure as hell can help to have solid text game.

I'm sure alot of guys will disagree but its just my penny in the pot.

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I think ppl mean don't relay on text game to much. That's lame. I wouldn't use it to build rapport but I do have little texting tricks I will use wen I'm bored. But usually I keep it to a minimum. Y? Because your not building anything it's impersonal. They can't see u feel u touch u. If everyone is texting... Imagine how u would stand out if u said "hey I'm coming over." If your texting her and i roll over to her place...She will text u back after I escalate and fuck her. The more digital the world gets the more impact face to face gas cuz no one is doing it. But either way u need solid text game. But rarely use it.

Obviously dont rely on it. Ive seen multiple posts in the last few days saying use texting only to get dates thats totally false and ive never done that and i fuck almost every girl i text except my mum of course ! haha. Its a communication tool that should be utilized to keep you on a girls mind in my opinion. For example i send a text out in the morning to a nice girl saying nothing over the top just good morning cheeky hope you have a nice day. She will then reply right away saying thats really sweet of you i hope you have a nice day too. I dont reply to that then by lunch time i can almost guarantee i have a second text asking how my days going. I feel everyones not ruling texting out as they see it as an easy get out of not doing something face to face which is not the case. Well for me its not.

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I think its fine the way u use it. I prefer to not. When a girl text me g morning I'm like "wow, clinger" if it works for u and your banging these girls with text game then develop it and teach ppl. It's worked for me in the past but I switched it up since I'm in my mid 20's ppl that age ppl see it diff. But I DO USE it. No one can not use it


I am more of a drop by kinda guy

Especially when she text dirty I'll be like annoyed I'll be like my dick isn't long enough to reach across town from here. N try to go over

Can we read the messages you sent to those chicks on tinder?

Completely right.

Play to your strengths.

There are guys here who are very successful with dance floor game and club game.

I'm not one of them. So I don't do it.

I kick ass at texting... I know I do - so I rely on it.

You just really have to know WHEN to transition it into a date or in person... Sooner is generally better.

I'll post my tinder text when I'm on my laptop

Ill post a bit of text chat from a girl i number closed last weekend.

Me; Hi J****, i wanted to apologise in advance for my dodgy dance moves hopefully you cant remember them though.
J; Well hello stenic, how could i possibly forget them ? how are you today hungover? x
Me; I hope your remembering them for the right reasons i seen you checking me out ! I'm not to bad atall i wasnt too drunk actually. Yourself?
J; You caught me checking you out ? I wouldnt do such a thing... I'm so hungover can still remember your dance moves though and kissing you when you left... x
me; Wow you must have a great memory because i cant remember that... you'll have to refresh my memory sometime soon ? x
J; Well we will have to see about that wont we?x
me; We wont have to see, here was me going to propose a lovely surprise for you aswell but i suppose i can put it on hold until you refresh my memory. x
J; A lovely surprise ? Is the surprise worth a kiss ? i think you should tell me what it is i dont like surprises x
me; Why would i waste a surprise by telling you what it was but here goes... its a no spooning session with me free of charge, dont hate the player. x
J; You think a spooning sessionl is worth a kiss stenic? x
me; Of course its coming into winter its cold times if anything i should be charging you for that shit ! so what do you do for a living i dont think i caught that off you last night since you kept checking me out and i could barely hear you over the music... x

Just some standard chat to begin with i fucked this chick 4 days later after going to hers for some pizza and a 'spooning session' lol Shes pretty down to earth and hotter than i remember has a kid though but that doesnt really bother me at the moment.

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I suck at texting or even phone calls for that matter. I dont have a facebook account or tweeter, instagram, pinetrest or what ever.

I am not saying texting its wrong. But there is nothing better in this world than going to a club meeting some chic and fucking the shit out of her in a hotel room all within 7 hours of just meeting her.

I could never do that thru text. Thats the way it was done back in the day and that's the way most Experienced pua still do it.


I think that texting severely impacts approach anxiety because you solely rely on hiding behind a phone. When talking to a chic so many things go into play. Tonality, facial expressions, accent, body language, sarcasm, All those things are impossible to learn thru text alone.

I love texting

Sometimes you can't get her away from her friends, (even with table game)

Texting helps things massively because she doesn't have to show her friends and she can booticall you without her friends knowing

Brian, I am pretty sure that you would get laid less if phones were never invented. i can't imagine what it must of been like in the old days, knocking on a door, asking her parents if she is available, writing letters that take days to get answered.

We are all lucky to live in this modern time with all this technology.

However, with texting, if a girl is replying to you, it's pretty easy to get the meet regardless of the gamey texts. It's just getting them to not flake is the big hurdle.

I'm sure I am not the only one here, that a deep conversation with a girl seems to flake more than the quick phone numbers that you expected to flake, weird.

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Agree with pebble fully. Texting is a tool and a very good tool to use if you are good at it.
I love fucking a girl the same night who doesnt but i like a challenge and i mean most 9/10's dont fuck on the first night if they are worth keeping anyway.

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Guys dont get me wrong I use text and phone calls. I just dont game them thru text.

Also a good method that I use for them not to flake is I just text them 30 min before our meet and say " hey get ready I will be in your house in 20 min" then dont answer or text back if she calls after that. Never send a text asking for permision like " hey what time can I pick you up?" or or " hey where would you like to go tonight"

Just show up at her place. Dont give her too much time to think of and excuse.

Sounds cool but 20 minutes is a short time in a girl's world (5 times the time you or I would need to leave the house), do you find the panicky effect this creates works to your advantage?

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Being a relative amateur I have a question. And this may seem kind of offensive, but like you, I don't mean it that way. But, you are getting laid by this behaviour, engaging in long text conversation, and the way you're talking just doesn't seem that...masculine (I mean you start by apologising, hardly John Wayne). At the same time you seem to be creating a good rapport. I've noticed this about younger guys, I'm wondering if reducing the intimidation factor of a very masculine man helps to create a rapport and therefore get laid. Although many guys on here seem to have luck with the very dominant approach. What do you think young ladies these days expect of a man?

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i've seen guys overkill the alpha bravado too and cock block themselves,

find the balance, but if the girl is texting back and forth, then don't change your style because isn't seem so John Wayne.

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