So, im finally getting into sarging now, and this weekend will be the first time actually doing alot of it. so i need to know if theres anything vital that is often overlooked.

so i think i have this down, but it seems as though im missing something.

so first off we need an opener. just to get their attention and to give you an excuse to talk to them.

Then you want to neg her... so you would say, "sorry, you have an eyelash on your cheek... can i get it for you?

then you would want to carry on, perhaps in a game, i like Neil's 5 Questions game. so say i did that, and maybe neg her one more time, maybe with the to much makeup neg.

now assuming that i have had 3 IOIs by now i could # close by this time?

I have the openers down, i know how to use the negs, but i guess my problem spot is the middle conversation. Im just guessing i would run out of material, and maybe stall and improvise, which would be bad. Or i could neg her to much. which would be worse. so what kinds of things would i need to use in the middle of the conversation. besides this, anyone else know what is missing out of my routine?

Chappy,

From a fellow newbie to another, I think it's vital that you give yourself as few rules to follow as possible until you get comfortable with the skills. Also, expect reasonable success. For example, if you went out with the expectation that you were going to bring home two hotties for a menage, that would be a little beyond reasonable for a first-time sarge.

Focus on the stuff you can control. I'd say for your first night out, just try to make your opener sound natural, then just go for being entertaining and relaxed. Here's a good rule to follow - Better to remain silent than to throw out a DLV.

Here's something I keep in my back pocket. "Tonight doesn't matter". Remember that you're trying to develop the skills and the girls will come later. If you focus on trying to attract the one girl in front of you you'll come off needy and desperate, which is exactly the opposite of what you want. Tonight doesn't matter.

dude, you dont need a set schedule to follow, do it as it comes, its not bad to improvise....i think its better than canned material cause its from YOUR experiences so you convey it better. yea the games are good and negs are good in moderation, but dont rely on such a strict list, let it bend to the situation. you might have to take down bitch shields or AMOG some guy or deal with a shit test, you always have something that WILL come up. BE READY FOR IT. Go out confident and expect to get results, but dun worry so much about what to do at what time, do it when the time rises

aight thanks guys thats pretty helpful, and yea i know canned material is bad, but i need to get comfortable with the situation before i open up completely.

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Chappy