what to say after a freeze out?



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high_baller
PostPosted: Sat Sep 20, 2014 2:30 pm 
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For the past 1 month, out of the blue I went cold turkey and ignored my best friend's texts, calls, & unfriended on facebook. I'm trying to get out of the friendzone. I expect to run into her in the coming week, what am I supposed to say if she approaches me demanding an explanation
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JackZero
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Tell her why you did it. If it's because you don't want to be just best friends anymore, tell her. You are going to have a hard time because this girl was your friend and you guys were running around doing friend shit. Now you're sexually frustrated with your agreed arrangement and improperly using a freezeout technique.

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Tell her why you did it. If it's because you don't want to be just best friends anymore, tell her. You are going to have a hard time because this girl was your friend and you guys were running around doing friend shit. Now you're sexually frustrated with your agreed arrangement and improperly using a freezeout technique.
Hi thanks for your reply. cOuld you please explain why it's improper?

I had made my feelings known before and been friendzoned by her,l and I just decided out of nowhere that we couldn't be friends.
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Hi thanks for your reply. cOuld you please explain why it's improper?
You freeze out a girl when she's not really acting like she wants a day 2 or if she is stopping you from having sex with her at the last minute. The point is that you have to be viewed, in her eyes, as someone who has the potential of being more than just a friend for a freeze out to work. How you've tried to apply it, you are acting like a friend who abandoned her when she's done nothing wrong.

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CharlesFinley
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I had made my feelings known before and been friendzoned by her,l and I just decided out of nowhere that we couldn't be friends.

^^ And that was your problem. Never do this. Never say your feelings. Always show instead.

As for how you act around her and what to say to her... Since the cat's out of the bag she probably has a fair idea of why you've froze her out already... She may not even ask, or approach you about it.

Just say you see her differently than she sees you, and you can't have a 'friendly' relationship with her, given those feelings.
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