Improve some of my frame, by letting some personal things out.

I spoke to tripp about a girl, thats about 4yrs older than I and really has her stuff str8. Nice, cool, confident girl, never really studders when she speaks really clear and discrete with her words. And for some reason found me attractive.

I guess out of this whole situation, I got a lil to emotionally attacted really quick and it bought me to the reality of "What the hell Juice, Your still acting like a bitch". Its coming up on 2weeks and with our schedules we havent been able to meet at all, the most attractive thing about her is that she shows a strength that I only see in my mother. And in a year she is going to be a Lawyer can you say "Cha ching"!! There is quite a few things ive done wrong in this ordeal, when we first started talking I she was calling me all the time. Sending me text, being really into me.. which is something im not used to considering my faults with women.

If I can remember like since monday, she hasnt called and been seldomly responding to some of my text. Which has me thinking she is started to flake me out, and also.. im becoming AFC again. So today I sent her text basically saying when u get the time call me and im leaving it at that. If she doesnt call in the next week, im deleting her number and text that sent her so i cant contact her if i wanted.

I can see myself struggling, started courtship shouldnt be this hard, i just didnt do a good job of keeping things interesting. Which I need to improve on, also I tried to do some sarging yesterday and pushed myself to at least open up on one girl. Ive been really out the loop with my PUA skillz.. since I moved out but Im just bummed out because I realize what i did wrong, really not knowing how to fix it but at this point im starting to careless.

I havent really embraced my full potential as a PUA.. AND im trying to become good at being creative on the fly whereas havent material in advance. I really need to work on approach tiiming, gaming a set of girls, and basically gaining comfort which is the ultimate goal. I think i let my guard down once i know a girl is into me and I let to much out..

I dont know whats the problem but im gonna improve my frame by learning what not to do next time.

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It's good that you're venting.

"call me when you get a chance" . . . not good.

Also, gaining comfort isn't the ultimate goal. If comfort is the ultimate goal, you'll be LJBFed every time. You HAVE to balance it with attraction.

If you don't hear from her in a few days, text her with something more direct, showing that you are taking the lead.

And, as far as time spans between communication, the exact time span doesn't matter so much. I picked up a girl the weekend before our Nashville meet up. Told her I would be out of town the next weekend. She texted me anyway, after not talking to me for a week. She has me on her mind. We exchanged a couple of texts. That was it, but that was enough. Now, today we've exchanged a few more texts. Nothing major, but she's interested in me and is asking me more personal details, because she's interested. And we've only texted each other a few times within the past couple of weeks. She had a blast with me the night I met her. And she remembers this.

So, with this girl, if you turn things around now, you should still have a chance. But you have to turn things around.

Yeah, i told you that AFC side is coming out lol.. yeah.. i knew when i sent that it was bad for the gameplan

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frame is obviously really important and like tripp said it's good your getting it out. you clearly need to re-frame yourself and get a more confident attitude about yourself. confidence alone can close girls so i see it as the most important part of ones game. Maybe you should just chill out for a weekend not sarge or anything and read a pua book. discuss your thoughts about the book with other puas and get back a good mindset and start having fun again (this usually works for me when i need to re-frame).

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Yeah, but geez im gonna try ma luck going downtown where I live 2morrow nite.. I need to be aggressive in the field and not be afraid anymore.

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In your cause Juice, yes you DO need to get out there and keep getting out there. You're just starting to build your frame. You need the field experience to keep building it and to calibrate it. It's gonna be bumpy right now. Understand that, and then overcome it.

Yeah, im slowly starting to but i need to keep myself fresh with infomation and come up with my own ways of PUA'in that match my personality

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