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| neiled_it | PostPosted: Tue Jul 15, 2014 5:51 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat Jul 05, 2014 11:40 pm Posts: 11 | | Hi, I'm thinking push/pull is one of the most important techniques that one should master, if not the most important. Now I know that push is like negging or teasing and pull is like complimenting and that leaves the woman wondering and asking questions because she's not used to guys treating her like that.
But, I want to MASTER this technique. Anyone can help??
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| taz22 | PostPosted: Tue Jul 15, 2014 5:57 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Thu Jun 05, 2014 4:11 am Posts: 42 | | BUMp, i wanna hear this too.
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| GamesSN | PostPosted: Tue Jul 15, 2014 6:03 pm | |
Joined: Thu Nov 08, 2012 3:19 pm Posts: 1472 | | There is nothing to master man. It's really easy. Like really really easy. There's no level of mastery to it. Either you understand the concept and do it or you don't.
Physically push a chick away and turn your back on her then draw her in and joke with her. You can do this over and over and it won't get tiresome. Keep it fun, don't be too serious about it and she'll be craving your attention. Just keep it flirty.
If enough comfort is built up i'll do whatever. If I spill beer on my hand i'll wipe my hand on her shoulder and give her a cheeky wink then joke with her. Push(Wiping your hand) | Pull(Drawing her back in and joking with her). Don't do it randomly, make sure you build up rapport and comfort before this to the level that you wouldn't mind her doing the same to you and it's fine.
A perfectly harmless approach to physically pushing a girl away is placing your open hand on her chest(So your middle finger is at her neckline) and lightly pushing her back about an inch or two and moving your shoulder(with free hand) in the opposite direction as if to turn and move away. Then you open up your body, lightly caress/hold her shoulder, smile and joke with her. "I don't like you anymore. You're annoying. *push* Haha, i'm just kidding. *kino and wink*"
I don't do push/pull verbally unless I can back it up with physical interaction in order to solidify that i'm not putting her down but just messing around with her. 90% of the time these women grab at me when I come back.
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| LIFE PUA | PostPosted: Wed Jul 16, 2014 1:30 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict | Joined: Tue Jun 03, 2014 8:04 pm Posts: 217 Website: http://www.lifedatingcoaching.com/ Location: Metro Detroit | | I think the best advice not given in the PUA community about Push - Pull is the simple fact most guys over do the Push. The vast majority is pull. Its an occasional push. At first you do more push, and it decreases gradually as the interaction progresses, but it never ends. Push is light, fun, rapport building. Push is a pumping the rapport breaks in my experience, which pumps Attraction.
This is one of the things you must mess up to figure out.
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