So I managed to pick up a very very hot girl 10 years younger than me. Outside of a reignited interest in the world of PUA, I am very experienced in NLP, hypnotherapy and linguistics. My PUA skills are very rusty.

Given I am 230lb (although I am at the gym 6 days a week and rapidly getting back into shape), I am guessing although I am rusty, I've not done bad anyway.

I need some help from some of you experts.

First date we connected on a deep level. She repeatedly told me how she found my intelligence and humour really attractive. It was all building up nicely.

However when I went to hold her hand at the end of the night she suddenly seized up. Despite that we had date two at my place. We drunk lots of wine, talked and really connected. Again! I was teasing her all night, which worked great. However the minute I would try and get close to her she would clam up and literally move away from me. I didn't wuss out on it, just brushed it off and teased her. Told her not to make assumptions and that I wasn't ready for any cuddling yet and she had to work for it. That worked. It escalated and we did have a really nice hug where she laid back into me. Then she'd move away. Repeat several times.

So beyond this the same thing happened with kissing. I'd lean in, she'd move away. Eventually (probably because we'd had some much wine) she kissed me back. Then she pulled away.

Anyway, she eventually decided to stay the night. She slept in my bed but all that happened was kissing where, you guessed it...after 30 seconds of her starting to really get into it...she suddenly stopped herself and pulled away.

Other info? She repeatedly refers to herself as being 'very pretty'.
She told me she's very intimate but only when she decides she wants to let me in.
She threw a huge shit test on me last night, which I ignored. We have another date this week.


Am I being hard on myself that I've not broken through yet?

By the way, I genuinely really really like this girl.

I have recently hooked up with arguably the shyest girl on the planet and pushed further than your situation, brother lol. She wants it, you just have to make her comfortable with the situation. Blame her hotness or her seductive look or something as to why you cannot control yourself. Ladies like to make it seem like they are not as horny as men and do not sleep around all the time. Although many of them do and want it just as much, if not more, than men.

I find it most helpful with this recent shy girl to talk her through it in a sense. Just some dirty talk and reassurance. If she really is a shy girl and not just playing hard to get.

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seems like you gotta focus on making her pussy happy

Ya that girl can be shy or perhaps she did a heavy reading on female dating stuffs.

In other words, she's slow gaming you.

The good thing is you have got to work persistently to get her.

The bad thing is even you guys are in a relationship like after one month, she mostly will hold the dominant role in that relationship as you will value her more than she value you. You can turn the situation though if you are really good in bed.

That's a concept I learnt from <Sex Beast The Awaken> called Cut Out Her Confusion of Having Sex with you.
It's about being see as a potential sex partner, rather than a bf material at first so you can bed her fast and that girl won't slow gaming you. Worth to check it out.


Hope this help,
Naughty Napoleon

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