I recently went Facebook "official" with a girl I have been dating since the beginning of the year. We have kept it private and I can see why that was a better idea. I am a server and the boy to girl ratio is in favor of the girl. I have been playful and flirty (bantering) with these girls for the past months. I never number closed, nor have asked them out.


Now they know who my girlfriend is...and let me tell you that the shit tests are coming in hardddddd. They even tried to interrogate me about her, which is felt was inappropriate because I don't want to talk to them about our relationship when she isn't there. I almost felt guilty because they kept throwing my girlfriend in my face if I did anything playful, for example, at the end of the night we tell our supervisor that we are finished with everything and she lets us go. I thought it would be amusing to cart one of the girls in a chair across the dining room to her office to tell her we were finished. At the end of the night, these two girls yelled "oh say hi to your girlfriend" in an obnoxious way.

What would you say is not appropriate flirting? What would you say is appropriate flirting?

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I flirt with other girls INFRONT of my girlfriend. It makes her jealous and then we go home and have crazy wild sex.

Plus, it will keep your game sharp so when something happens with this girl, you don't lose it when you get back out there.

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Depends. If she is with me I don't flirt. Girls flirt with me but I don't react. I expect her to do the same. It works this way. Instead I flirt with her to keep my game sharp.
I flirted before when I had my previous girlfriend. Then it went physical and then cheating... I decided that I won't do that again. Everything starts somewhere.
I think this depends on your girl as well. Some girls don't care if you hit on other women, some do. Plus I never needed to make my girl jealous to make her want me and have good sex.

It's mostly a matter of what you think is right or wrong, and where you draw the line in your relationship.

If you want a relationship where you flirt openly with other girls, you can expect her to do the same. In my most recent relationship, I pretty much said 'a little flirting is OK, getting physical isn't.' Neither of us had problems with being a little flirtatious (that's who I am, and I can't change that), however, taking kino to the point where you hold hands, touch her thighs etc. was too far.

I've known good relationships where they often would flirt with others however. It's just a matter of what you think is morally right/wrong when you're in one.

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