Which of these personality traits describes you the best?

Are you trying to get girls to like you or are you trying to fuck them?

In order to get laid, you need to be a bit of a "schmoozer" but you need to be a hard core closer.

You've gotta be a likeable person. You've got to love yourself. You don't necessarily have to be "funny," (like a clown) but you do have to be able to make girls laugh, giggle and smile in your own special way. You've got to build some rapport and comfort with them.

Yadda yadda... all that shit is cool... But you've gotta be an AGGRESSIVE CLOSER.

Now, here's my secrets to being an "aggressive closer."

PRESSURE

I feel like guys who are mostly "schmoozers" have the biggest problem with this. They are so caught up in the "comfort building" shit that they are too afraid to go for the close because they might fuck it up...

Even a simple question like "What are you doing later?" might put a little too much pressure on the girl and you blow everything that you've accomplished. But guess what? You've gotta go for it.

You need to be able to alternate between "schmoozer" and "closer" mode. If you apply a little too much pressure, which you will be able to tell by her body language, you switch back to "schmoozer" mode.


TAKING RISKS

"You can't lose what you don't put in the middle. But you can't win much either."

Like I said, by putting a bit of pressure on the girl by going for the close (or a step towards the close I should say) you risk blowing everything. You lose.

What is your definition of losing?

Mine is not taking an opportunity when I see it. Going down looking cause I was too scared to swing the bat. That's losing to me. To me, losing is not "losing." Losing is not trying.

If you're afraid to apply a little bit of pressure and take a risk of losing what you've accomplished so far, you're going to lose anyway and wind up rubbing your cock when you get home.