ok soo sometimes when your with 2 girls and your target leaves the room you get the question "do you like her?" this happened to me last night by a girls cousin and i slipped up. what would you guys say/do in this situation? I never thught id get asked this again after high school... thanks

Normally in that situation I would just either act cocky funny or just telll the truth. "Do you like her?" "Well it is hard for me to know if I like her yet.. I have only known her for 20 mins. She is attractive... but I can't base that on if I like her or not."

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Take it as an IOI. Girls usually ask that question for friends because they already know their friend is interested in you.

.... "so far so good. how does she rate as a freind?"

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i would say with a big smile, no not at all, in fact when we were talking closely she sort of smelled funny, and on top of everthing else im gay! Then i would role my eyes with another big smile!

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It may be an IOI but an IOI not from her but from a friend`s opinion. Unless you are already in A3 which i guess it is not what you meant, i would just act cocky and funny and deny atraction.

Yeah, Zenit is right, it could be just her friend honestly asking you. You can always tell though, you just have to pay attention. If you see them talking in each others ear or close during anytime of the pickup your best guess is, YES that is an IOI. In which case I'd respond with something along the lines of, "we'll see..." / "i don't know i've only known her for 20 minutes, she seems nice" / "(other remark showing half intrest)" (keep in mind they should be jazzed up, those are basic). If you don't see them talking it could be just an honest question and the target could or couldnt like you. So I'd go with a remark that tends to be more of a subtle neg. "shes cool" "shes nice" "(something else that is positive but borderline neutral/neg)", and then move right on with conversation with her friend. Make sure it doesn't look like your trying to change the subject, just redirect the conversation as if the question didn't even register. This will protect you while still enabling you to continue on with the pickup.

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