hellow. havent been here in ages. its what college does to ya. anyways, it seems that i meet HB's all the time, and get digits. but nothing happens after that at all anymore. its starting to get to me head. no dates, no nohting. also it doesnt help that all my friends are gettin into relationships, and let me be in the dark about any events anymore.

also, i had a HB9 come to my house the other day, due to one of my roommates. it turned out that i went to elementary school wit her, and she wasn't giving me any guard. no bitch shield, no nothing. i wasnt expecting it, and she came to the door to eagerly meet me. i didnt really show her any interest, as i thought she was just another one of my roomates sluts. after that, she ended up confessing up her huge crush she had on my from way back, but she diddnt know i was that guy until later on in the evening that i was that guy.

this is what i was wearing when i met her btw, for first impressions:

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but we all went to a party, and was eggin me on to go with her and meet people, like im one of her 'girlfriends' or something. at this party, she ended up talking to people that i knew. diddnt really listen in, but i let her be free. showed no attachemnts or anything. but after talking to another guy or w/e, she'd always run back to me to tell me how horribly they failed.

came back to my house, and it was her, me, 2 roommates, and a buddy of mine. she danced with everyone but me. i think that was some game on me on her part, to make me feel awkward. but then she tried to get me to do this booty poppin move with her, that a man doesnt do. i played it dumb, and told her i couldnt move my hips. but she then insisted that she grinded on me first next, and then me grind on other dudes or something. i dont get it.

after that though, she dragged me into a different room, and i ended up giving her a little seduction with tango dancing. but, it ended pretty quick as the others showed up. she seemed turned on by this.

i got digits, and she came all the way across the house to give me this long tight bear hug. thats pretty much what happened.

how long to wait, or does she think im gay for some reason? its been in the back of my mind for like 3 days. and its mind boggling as well as i had this huge crush on her back then.

advice? i know im DLVin myself right now, but its confusing the crap outta me.

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oh and uh, i diddnt really spit any game to her. no need to open, as her sheild was automatically down. basically i just did some conforting and getting to know her a bit stuff, while DHVin myself. basic kino with tango though. thats about it.

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Well it sounds like she was into you almost right off the bat. I would have talked to her more in the begining, kino'd of course and forced her to qualify herself to you... then escelelate.

Thats also the main advice I'd give you proceeding onward. It sounds like you didn't confidently move forward, which judging by her huge amount of IOI's she wanted you to. Be confident! If your thinking she wants it (Does she want me to kiss her?) then it's time to confidently move and find out... because she probably does.