Well guys i get to meet some really Crazy cases these days

there is this girl at work that i asked out , it started with gazing flirting then i quickly asked her out, less time to approach means less chance to be friendzoned, But i had to find a way to ask her out since work would a bad place to do so, then i added her in facebook i noticed that she liked some pages titled "lesbians" so i asked do you like girls ? she replies yes then i told that i like girls too and that we should meet up and go to A nightclub (my playground) to get some , then i asked some of her friends if really she is a lesbian they say that as far they know she is not ...

ok , at night club i played hard we talked danced i ignored the fact that she said she likes girls i kino her from hands till waist and she didn't resist then at the beach area calm dark and comfy i went for the kiss and she resisted and said i told you i like girls , well i kept my calm and smiled and told her "well i need to test that, what about we play a game, i ll pick up a girl for you to kiss if 20 girl says no then u ll lose and have to kiss me" , then we started ... i approach a bunch of girls and say smiling and making fancy gestures " hello ladies can i ask you a favor (yeah yeah go ahead sure ...) i came in for a date with this beautiful lady now she says that she like girl,now i challenged her to find a girl to kiss (by the way she couldn't ask any girl by herself) if she loses she ll have only me to kiss tonight" so every girl i asked said No sorry i will not kiss her (in many different ways), at number 15 she cracks and says why no girl want to kiss me i do my thing some sweet smart talk and i kiss close , we go dance touch kiss close again ... we sit somewhere she tells me about her entire life about her suicide attempt ... we finish the night somewhere eating noodles she seems to enjoy i walk her home i give her mobile phone (left it with me at some point) steps away from the door she asks me that i should continue walking her till entrance i grab her to kiss and then " no , you still don't believe i like girls or you don't want to believe" i said that it doesn't make a difference and this is my way to say good bye she says i ll kiss you on the cheek i say i am not a baby "i ll hug you" and she does ... then i don't respond and smile and wish her good night and go my way without turning ...

next day at work, i do a little freez-out second day she seems open to talk we talked for a while she says she likes movies i note that and one day later i asked her to go with me for a movie night to watch the latest spiderman and she agrees and even hint at an upcoming movie that she is interested in , 2 days later we meet again i remind her the movie she says she will be ready, i was planning to make it quick and ask her to grab a bite at my flat after the movie ... date time i call but she is not answering i waited 30 min and called 2 nd time not answering again so i called my BFF and we went to watch the movie ... she is no show for 2 days and only today i saw her and sensed that she has some talk in her mind i said while walking and smiling hi how are you doing like if nothing happened and continued and i can hear hear her say i am great thanks ... i want to know if you have any idea about what is going on here is she lesbian or trying to be or testing me somehow because you know beautiful Chinese girls (yeah that's my thing) tend to be so much dramatic or i did blow up somewhere in the process ???

thank you guys

My guess is that she didn't show up because your intentions were too obvious, and she isn't interested. Maybe she is lesbian and not interested because of that. Another possibility is that she is bisexual, in which case you blew it just because you were not smooth enough (too obvious).

Good game is about balance. You need to show interest in a girl as a person (giving her appropriate IOIs), but never sexually in the beginning. In the initial stages you are supposed to get to know the girl and "investigate" your interest in her. Most of the time you will find that you are really not that interested in her, since there is no chemistry. Something is missing and things run out of steam between you.

Sometimes you click, she is laughing to all your boring jokes, you mirror each other and build rapport, and you feel an urge to touch each other (kino) and joke around. Things escalate and you will make appointments with each other without even thinking about it, because everything just feels right. That is how it usually works when you let nature take its course.

thank you for responding hugge
in order to learn can u give me examples from my situation ?
and yeah i agree with you ... i tried to balance between my sexual interest and interest about her personality, i was mirroring her and it turned out that we had so much things in common but i had to sexualise so we wont be buddies , i know i did something wrong but i am not able to know in which stage it must be between the end of first date and second one

Sounds like you humiliated her

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