| I've been working on a broad overview of different ways to set the frame based on my over 2 years of research.
This is my current module.
Please give me your feedback, comments, suggestions, questions or criticism.
1. Direct Assassin
>Setting frames through logical persuasion.<
This is the most common method to frame used by most people when they want to get someone to do something.
Example: "You should go to the gym because working out is healthy."
Example: "You should date me because I am rich, funny, smart and interesting." (<--line obviously won't work)
2. Stealth Ninja
>Setting frames by seeding ideas or 'accidently' embedding them into conversation.<
This is already considered to be manipulation by some. A lot of people do this tactic, without even realizing.
Example: "...beat up that dude only because I work out..." Has an implication that it's worth going to the gym.
Example: DHVs.
3. Killer Clown
>Setting frames through humor.<
Examples: C&F, teasing,
4. Mirror Mirror on the Wall
>Setting frames through imagination and visualization<
NLP experts claim this works because the brain has difficulty distinguishing from reality and visualization.
Examples: Roleplay, future or past projections, eliciting emotions
5. Spider under your Skin
>Setting frames through the subconscious<
Examples: NLP patterns, setting in stone framing, anchoring, stealth/covert hypnosis
6. Spider's Web
>Setting frames through compliance. and by exploiting commitment and consistency principle.<
This works because she backwards rationalizes her actions as "I'm obviously doing this because I like him."
Examples: Kino, moving in the venue, getting her to do stuff/favors for you, getting investment
(See Influence by Robert Cialdini).
Note: Passive compliance is also a form of compliance. In other words, if she doesn't protest (or walk away) against an action then she by default is slightly agreeing to it. This is partly why kino generates attraction.
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7. Friendly Thief
>Setting frames by taking advantage of the fact that she likes you and social obligations.<
Cialdini explains that people are more likely to give compliance and be influenced by those who they like. In my opinion, not to take advantage of the fact that she likes you and will do what you ask of her is beyond stupid. Use your the compliance power that you currently have to make her like you even more (to solidify that attraction).
(See Influence by Robert Cialdini).
Examples: The use of qualification after attraction, "What makes you stand out from all the other girls?" or "Give me 3 compliments"
8. Poison Temptations
>Setting frames by use of baiting the target w/ an ego boost or other benefits if she accepts the frame.<
Example: "You're brave. So I know that you'll approach her now" or "I have a lot of respect for you because you don't have a lot of approach anxiety. Now i'm going to watch and learn from you. Approach her - now."
"You're kind and compassionate person so I know that you don't believe in abortion."
9. Cult Charisma
>Setting frames by showing extreme conviction in what you're saying<.
This works because as we all know the strongest frame almost always wins (and absorbs all the weaker frames).
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