making the most of a number after missed opportunity



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PostPosted: Sat Apr 26, 2014 9:56 pm 
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Decided to talk to a ridiculously hot girl last night at a cafe/bar expecting a 5-second conversation. I instead got offered a number after 5 minutes (purportedly to be able to get some info from her about a party she's putting together) and she opened up a lot about her family background and artistic endeavours/career. I kept at it, making eye contact, smiling, and trying to act much less interested than I was. She ignored her (girl) friend that was sitting next to her for pretty much the entire time, but at some point it seemed natural to go back to our respective friends for a bit. We bumped into each other half an our later and there was some touching/hugging since it looked like the scene was breaking up. A little while later, I really was getting ready to go home (super tired) and she was getting cash from an SPAM. She said she was gonna take a cab, I said we could maybe share, she said where she lived, and I ... said I lived in the opposite direction, and was obviously having an internal fight regarding what I wanted to do in regard to her and how pushy I should be. I ending up just saying I was gonna get in touch with her, and she said it would be great if I came to her party and that I should bring all my friends. This was the first discouraging sign, and also the last thing said. Of course, I kicked myself for being such a coward and not pushing to see how far I could take it. Since I'm in a relationship I don't want to jeopardize, I feel I should only be open to one-nighters or a similarly casual arrangement. Still, I now find myself scheming for what to do with this number I have. Please no moralizing replies. Thanks


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PostPosted: Sun Apr 27, 2014 5:10 am 
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Awesome man! Just keep at it. I would just try and chill with her one on

one if you can!

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PostPosted: Sun Apr 27, 2014 7:50 pm 
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Sounds like she's a party promoter- it's their job to befriend and sell tickets to venues. If not, she was definitely digging you. Either way, why not follow up with a call/text ? If she told you to come to a party and bring all your friends it must count for something. At the very least, you have a hot chick/promoter friend in your phone book. Don't be so hard on yourself. SNL don't always happen, especially if she came with a friend(s) and a reputation to protect. Most chicks don't want to be perceived as "sluts" by other women.

I agree with prince that a one-on-one is more ideal as it's more conductive for seduction. Although, I'm sure if you brought your boys out to meet up with her group of hot chicks, your friends would love you for it and you'd have a good night out. Spin it anyway you want.
Thanks both for the encouragement! Yes, I'll try for a low key one on one.

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