I've been busy guys-craming everything what I read and experienced. I broke down of what I think is the key elements of the Game. Of course I'm not the first one-but some people looked forward of me coming out with some kinda model or method. This is called THe Stealth Seduction Module.
Let's start with what makes a good approach:
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As you can tell from the model I've broken down what I think is the best impression a person can give a woman in order to decide if he has some potential.
The "First Impression" includes quickly going up to the target within a couple of seconds; in Mystery's term 3 seconds. Which I think is ideal for any good approach and build up confidence, not letting the AA take over.
The next one is Energy\Mood state; which is crucial for any kind of approach. It said to go in with a higher energy state than the group. So if they have high-go alittle bit more higher. If they're low then go not too much but someone high to living them up. You don't want to go too high or people will get too annoyed and you'll come across as a pain in the ass.
The next one over that is Appearance-which will indicate good confidence and also with that will allow you to feel more relaxed and comfortable. If a woman shows you IOI's within the few seconds because of your appearence-it will seem more relaxing to you that you're already in.
Having good confidence is a must because if you notice that people with LSE tend to bitch and complain over little crap that doesn't matter that much. Having confidence will assure that you have a positive outlook as well optimistic.
Beig relaxed in any situation is good because if you've noticed when you're stressed about something, then everyone else around you is stressed. It's the vibe that makes another person feel good or not.
Showing not too much interest off the bat will assure that the set will be more interested and their guards will be down. If you show the set a particular interest within a set, they'll most likely move to another location or be rude to you. It will make the set overly protective over the target you've choosen.
All these will assure you have a good or better first impression and FI is most important in any kind of social interaction. Ever meet someone that is sluggish, doesn't appear confident enought to say what's he\she is really thinking, doesn't dress that appealing or like shit. Would you engage into a conversation with him for long or would you bail out? You might stick in there for acouple of minutes but if you were a woman you'll highly be annoyed and find this guy unattractive.
The attraction is based upon the first impression a man gives. If he fails to do so correctly then she'll either put him as a friend or nothing at all.
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Like I said the first impression is always good for a woman to base on their potential mating with you or not. The reason why they say "The First Impression is always best" is because when you first meet someone, you automatically judge whether or not they are cool, cute, or dorky or a asshole; however people are generally "wait and see", which is good because they'll usually give you a chance to even determine whether or not you have demonstrated any value to them. Usually if person DLV alot in a interaction then the group might think he's a loser! If he DHV's during the interactiont he'll be known as the cool guy, the funny guy, and the interesting guy. Don't you agree?
The vibe from what she gets to you is another factor of attraction. People like to be around positive people in general. Who likes a person that always complains about shit and starts trouble? These people have bad vibes which sometimes can make people uncomfortable. Howevr, it is true that LSE people usually attract LSE people. I've been puzzled over months of why a certain girl is attracted to someone that I don't see any value in. It's the "Vibe's Frequency" level. Our vibes are like dials on a radio. If we want to change a station that has higher radio frequency then we can. However, we must change our "Vibe's Frequency" through changing our Inner Frame as well as Inner Core. Once we changed our "Vibes' Frequency" level then those with the same frequency will be attracted to you. How is this possible? It's part of Laws of Attraction. People who like people alike often attract people of the same type. Would you find a kidnapper dating a supermodel? Probably not, why? One his frequency is low and will only attract mind-like people. Another thing to think about is our thoughts and we use them. If we think postivily then our vibes will be more positive and gravitating. If our thoughts are negative then our vibes will be negative and at a low frequency, only repelling the higher frequency ones. Thus attracting only the same low frequency level that the other person has. So our vibes and VFL is vry important.
Having a good connection is good one of the most key elements that factor in attraction. If you have a strong connection or bond then it will be most likely you'll find that other person attractive. Also it's good to have a more deeper emotional connection than not. Did you ever find someone that made you feel understood and listened to? How does it make you feel? I would say it makes you feel more attracted to her. It also brings you two closer and share the same intimacy amongst each other. Same principle with women. Women want to bond and feel close with a male. Bonding is a emotional experience that woman find very attractive and most LTR last on unless it fades.
Humor is a good quality to have to lighten up heavy situations or when the woman is down, or whatever whatnot. Humor destroys negativity in it's path. Ever wonder why when you hear someone laughing and you go find out why-once you were told the funny joke it made all your worries go away while you were laughing your ass off. Laughing increases seratomines that increase happiness. When you make a woman laugh it shows have have a good set of qualities with you such as fun and socialable which all these are a major DHV as well!
Social Intelligence is a must because if you don't know when to kiss a girl or miss out on every window opportunity then you're royally fucked. They would just think your some social retard and with that in mind will find you unattractive. Thus some can't help being a Social Retard. I know I was along time ago but over time when you learn the skills and apply it to everyday life. You're SI will become more and more. Higher Social Intelligence or HSI is very good because it will promote you for the women to switch on that female attraction switch. LSI or Low Social Intelligence will only demonstrate that you're unable to hold a conversation and which is a major turn off for women. Women love to talk and they love to socialize. Women love to make friends everywhere they can possibly can. People are like otherwise in general. Some do have past experiences which prevent us from having good social interactions. However, one must overcome the fear for to improve on his SI.
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The Approach consists of six things with is a man's BL, appearence, confidence, high energy state, attitude, mood state. The approach is the most critical point before pick up can occur. Good Inner Game will assure a good approach and over all the practice in the field.
The Pick-Up consists of different phases it goes through such as a opener\disqualifier, neg\C&F lines, DHV, and K-CLOSE or N-CLOSE or head into The Connection stage. In the Pick-Up stage is where you try to get the woman to give IOI's as well you give some DHV's to put yourself higher status or higher value to attract her. After you noticed 3 IOI's and maybe a IOSI-you can move forward into your game like transport the target to another location at the event or jet out another place. However, if you just get one then she'll possibly be interested but on a safe side. Possibly a trust issue with men for her. However, if she gives none but is poliet and talks to you then it doesn't necessarily mean she's into you, just that she's making fluff talk. Fluff talk isn't bad but it's not what you wanna be in that point. After you've noticed some IOI's then you can be a challenge still but slowly show her IOI's and have her DHV. By then you'll be able to move into Connection State which is either jetting the target out of the place or transporting the target to another location inside the event.
The Connection Stage consists of different sets which is building comfort and trust through listening to the women; comfort building routines such as the cube or whatever game. Rewarding and punishment technique; when she's not complying with your tests then IOD, if she is then IOI to reward her for complying. Also mirroring is a good element to add because in NLP when you mirror a person's actions such as speech, movements, eye patterns, etc... etc.. this will help build Rapport.
The Seduction includes giving LMR to her instead of he giving you LMR. Freezing her out when she's giving LMR's. Tease her a big and make it a challenge for her to want to have sex. Make it hard for her to get you to fuck her instead of you ready to do it. Make her want to fuck you more than anything else in the world by being challenging and teasing her, amongst being dominate. Being dominate is a role women love men to take on. A woman loves you to caveman her in a way that is suitable for her tastes. However a "no" is a "no" and you must obey by it. She will be comfortable with you when she's ready to have sex. The reason why she didn't want to fuck already is probably because of the 7-10 hr rule wasn't fullfilled. Maybe there weren't so much rapport built for you two to fuck. If she had sex with you anyways regardless of any Rapport buit then it would be either "Fool's mate" or having her to have buyer's remorse.
All these will make up a healthy or non-healthy relationship.
I know this was long but I had to get what was on paper onto the computer.
Feedback and comments are most welcome! Thank you guys for your support and aiding me to become better in the field.
CHAT
