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Thats good that you talked to him about it. Hopefully he will turn around. If not you might have to consider a new roommate when your lease is up.
I had to drop a friend because he was always trying to be the alpha male center of attention no matter what even if it meant putting me down in front of the girl. Since i also consider myself an alpha male i would argue with him or start having to put him down and get him on the defensive. I finally realized that the girls would not be interested in either one of us. The bad thing is its a lose lose situation. Imagine how that looks to the girl. I would handle it like MR lucid says. truth is pua helped me realize who i wanted as a friend and who i didn't. the decision was a little easier for me cuz the guy was annoying too and i didn't live with him.
I don't see that pua destroyer working at all. If it works for you, great, but you would really have to do it on some pathetic guy. All the guy would have to do would be to ignore you or pretend like he didn't know what you were talking about. Very easy. however if you can blow the guy out of the set you've just sadly enough built up your attraction levels to the set.
we are in a very specific case here, a frat house. Where brothers are automatically of the highest social value, but we are busy people during parties, and personally we had a lot of guys hitting on our girlfriends. It's a big problem for us, because although they don't get anywhere, it's disrespect. I can't fault them because they don't know which girls belong to us, and they can't fault us for trying to defend our turf.
I have not yet seen a single person who can pretend nothing happened when I called him out. They usually just leave right the way.
As for the roommate situation, I feel bad because you can't outalpha the guy, it's your own fault, really. Learn and improve.