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PostPosted: Thu Feb 28, 2008 4:11 am 
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Whenever I try something new with my style and the way I look he tells those that we mutually know that I'm trying to be mystery from the vh1 show (which I only saw the last 2 episodes of) and that I look (pua) stuff up on the internet. I have an Idea of what to do: I think that I will verbally devour him. And those who talk to me about my internet activity I will fully admit it to them like it's no big deal and tell them that this only confirms that the way that I have already been interacting with women, and people for that matter, works and thus builds the confidence that I have in my own personality. But what do you guys think?

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PostPosted: Thu Feb 28, 2008 4:30 am 
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tell him to shut the fuck up about it, and if he doesnt stop, then stop talking to people with him. thats really gay of him and not friend like. ask him if he thinks its gonna help him out, becuase it wont. bashing ppl is not DHV

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I actually told him the same thing that you said and that what he was doing is cbing himself and not me. He apologized and said that he would not speak about this with other people again. fact of the matter is that he needs this the most out of any person that I know.

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dont let it affect you. if you act natural about it and dont get upset or defensive, he wont find a way to belittle you and no one will care. just say you are working on ways to better your lifestyle and not trying to pick up women because really... thats what you should be doing anyway. if he starts to interrupt and try to embarrass you, just give him a weird look and continue on like he is immature. or you can just keep a big long awkward pause and then just look back to the other people and say "now that we have comments from the peanut gallery, lets get back to what we were talking about". dont let him derail you. you need to keep the stronger frame


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PostPosted: Thu Feb 28, 2008 6:49 pm 
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I DLV the shit out of people who get self-conscious at the fact that they are in the community. It's easy to DLV a PUA who's not that good if you know the stuff, and it's fun too. I call it the PUA destroyer routine.


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I DLV the shit out of people who get self-conscious at the fact that they are in the community. It's easy to DLV a PUA who's not that good if you know the stuff, and it's fun too. I call it the PUA destroyer routine.
LOL! I'm sorry, but that's pretty funny. The idea of Anti-PUA canned material. Ah, irony. Further supports the fact that Inner Game matters more :-)
what do you do when you see another PUA work on a girl you are sort of know and try to bang?

Pull the PUA destroyer!

"Hey do you always talk to strangers? You remind me of that show the pickup artist. Are you one of those pathetic guys who's getting tips from the internet? Great effort kid."

Pull the girl aside "Dude, he's such a creeper"

Works great.


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Dude thats just wrong, seriously..its not funny it angers me. So you get your kicks off of taking people who are vulnerable because they want to be better people and you crush them?

Well give yourself a big pat on the back, good job.

To the original poster...dude if it doesnt bother you no one else will care. Dunt let jerk offs like the dude putting down other PUA's or your roomie get to you.

All they are doing is AMOG'in you, so counter it. Next time your roomate says something just go, "Yea and your raking in the chicks dude, i should just be doing whatever it is you do." (Smiling of course, dunt act like what he said bothered you). Counter him a few times correctly and he will be nicer to you and the other people will think hes a moron and your awsome.

Keep working on being a better person all around and dunt let the people who arent strong enough to do the same get in your way.

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^^^ sorry but if the guy is using canned material and the target is worth it well than they say all is fair and love and war. I could see a PUA arguement in my head with each using canned material to DLV each other lol. If he does it to mutual friend (hopefully not women) than a major way to shut him up would be to call him a fag asked the last time he got a girls number (or laid even) and infront of your group of friends go and open the hottest set in the place infront of them.


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PostPosted: Thu Feb 28, 2008 8:23 pm 
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Dude thats just wrong, seriously..its not funny it angers me. So you get your kicks off of taking people who are vulnerable because they want to be better people and you crush them?

Well give yourself a big pat on the back, good job.

To the original poster...dude if it doesnt bother you no one else will care. Dunt let jerk offs like the dude putting down other PUA's or your roomie get to you.

All they are doing is AMOG'in you, so counter it. Next time your roomate says something just go, "Yea and your raking in the chicks dude, i should just be doing whatever it is you do." (Smiling of course, dunt act like what he said bothered you). Counter him a few times correctly and he will be nicer to you and the other people will think hes a moron and your awsome.

Keep working on being a better person all around and dunt let the people who arent strong enough to do the same get in your way.
don't get me wrong, son. I use the methods too. It's just that the traditional method of AMOGing and asserting dominance often end up in a violent confrontation where many of us beat the shit out of some guy. It's a liability issue for us, and I really don't want to give our guest a impression that we are so overly violent that we beat up our guests. So instead of letting the violence happen, I would just point that guy out and hopefully he'll just leave in shame.

Think about it. Patronizing someone looks bad, and give them a just cause to attack you. Calling out their game? It's a civil way of letting them know that they are not welcome.

Really just another brand of AMOG destroyer that are less likely to result in violence.


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Thats good that you talked to him about it. Hopefully he will turn around. If not you might have to consider a new roommate when your lease is up.

I had to drop a friend because he was always trying to be the alpha male center of attention no matter what even if it meant putting me down in front of the girl. Since i also consider myself an alpha male i would argue with him or start having to put him down and get him on the defensive. I finally realized that the girls would not be interested in either one of us. The bad thing is its a lose lose situation. Imagine how that looks to the girl. I would handle it like MR lucid says. truth is pua helped me realize who i wanted as a friend and who i didn't. the decision was a little easier for me cuz the guy was annoying too and i didn't live with him.

I don't see that pua destroyer working at all. If it works for you, great, but you would really have to do it on some pathetic guy. All the guy would have to do would be to ignore you or pretend like he didn't know what you were talking about. Very easy. however if you can blow the guy out of the set you've just sadly enough built up your attraction levels to the set.


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Thats good that you talked to him about it. Hopefully he will turn around. If not you might have to consider a new roommate when your lease is up.

I had to drop a friend because he was always trying to be the alpha male center of attention no matter what even if it meant putting me down in front of the girl. Since i also consider myself an alpha male i would argue with him or start having to put him down and get him on the defensive. I finally realized that the girls would not be interested in either one of us. The bad thing is its a lose lose situation. Imagine how that looks to the girl. I would handle it like MR lucid says. truth is pua helped me realize who i wanted as a friend and who i didn't. the decision was a little easier for me cuz the guy was annoying too and i didn't live with him.

I don't see that pua destroyer working at all. If it works for you, great, but you would really have to do it on some pathetic guy. All the guy would have to do would be to ignore you or pretend like he didn't know what you were talking about. Very easy. however if you can blow the guy out of the set you've just sadly enough built up your attraction levels to the set.
we are in a very specific case here, a frat house. Where brothers are automatically of the highest social value, but we are busy people during parties, and personally we had a lot of guys hitting on our girlfriends. It's a big problem for us, because although they don't get anywhere, it's disrespect. I can't fault them because they don't know which girls belong to us, and they can't fault us for trying to defend our turf.

I have not yet seen a single person who can pretend nothing happened when I called him out. They usually just leave right the way.

As for the roommate situation, I feel bad because you can't outalpha the guy, it's your own fault, really. Learn and improve.


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If someone AMOG's you and try's to blow your game by explaining what your doing, let them have her. If's that's the best game he has, to move in on a pre-taken set he's not going to get very far. Move on to the next set, there are more than enough ladies to go around.

After all we are all lovers not fighters, rather than exerting all our efforts in playing off each other use that effort in your game. Move on, find another set and forget it ever happend.

Look at the bigger picture guys we are all here for one reason...


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If someone AMOG's you and try's to blow your game by explaining what your doing, let them have her. If's that's the best game he has, to move in on a pre-taken set he's not going to get very far. Move on to the next set, there are more than enough ladies to go around.

After all we are all lovers not fighters, rather than exerting all our efforts in playing off each other use that effort in your game. Move on, find another set and forget it ever happend.

Look at the bigger picture guys we are all here for one reason...
men are fighter for a reason. just being lover = you are a pussy.


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It's just that the traditional method of AMOGing and asserting dominance often end up in a violent confrontation where many of us beat the shit out of some guy
Wow. You got something very majorly wrong if you end up in fights.

Another 'wow' for exposing fellow PUAs. That's something even TD didn't come up with when he was ruining everyone's game. No offence, but in my books making fun of someone for using the exact same methods you do is pretty close to the lowest thing you can do.

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I DLV the shit out of people who get self-conscious at the fact that they are in the community. It's easy to DLV a PUA who's not that good if you know the stuff, and it's fun too. I call it the PUA destroyer routine.
LOL! I'm sorry, but that's pretty funny. The idea of Anti-PUA canned material. Ah, irony. Further supports the fact that Inner Game matters more :-)
what do you do when you see another PUA work on a girl you are sort of know and try to bang?

Pull the PUA destroyer!

"Hey do you always talk to strangers? You remind me of that show the pickup artist. Are you one of those pathetic guys who's getting tips from the internet? Great effort kid."

Pull the girl aside "Dude, he's such a creeper"

Works great.
lol if you pull that shit on me i would come right back:

"oh wow. obviously we have a a natural with the ladies right here. let me watch and learn the master of love get into these girls pants. how do you do it so well?"

haha... AMOG battle!


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