i think we have all encountered girls who are just downright EVIL.....girls who will call you; fat, ugly, stupid, lame, or all the above. i believe this is a huge reason to why guys are afraid to talk to some women.......Rejection isn't what guys fear, but the fear of being looked down upon. if a woman says "NO" its easy to accept it and move on, but most guys feel if they talk to a girl she will say something like " NO you're the ugliest thing i've ever seen in my life" then he's most likely to take it real hard. i grew up in an urban environment and i've been terrified to talk to girls because of this same reason, getting to the point where they spit on guys. but here are a couple ways i got over this fear

1. loose the reason: one of my favorite quotes is "nobody's perfect, but its better to be as close to perfect as you can, than to settle for being weak" i see it as you shouldn't waste your time being perfect but spend time improving yourself to the best version of you (your prime) if you're fat loose weight, have yellow teeth brush them, ugly, try to change your hairstyle or wear shades. Nowadays society will tell you its ok to be this or that not realizing that the same people that say that will still look down on you. if you're happy with yourself being ____ then don't change but if you aren't then do the smart thing and CHANGE

2. confidence: confidence is the cheat code of life. you can get and do almost if not anything if you have enough confidence. you can be the ugliest fattest dumbest nastiest person alive but if you have the confidence of a supermodel then you will probably have a good life. most guys focus on "what will she think about me" rather than "what couldn't she love about me?" seems cocky yes but putting yourself in that mindset will slowly put you in a more confident mood which will ultimately make you more confident long term.

3. get over it and create something out of it: realize that alot of girls are just bitches, if they see that they have the power to make you mad then they win. lets say you didn't have steps 1 and 2, and you approach a HB9 with a wack pick up line, she might look at you weird or even say something like "please you're so lame" make something out of it, smile and say something like "my friend told me to say that, i can see why he didn't finish elementary school" the thing about being a good PUA is adapting to what a girl gives you, its not a magic book that teaches you exactly what to say, it gives you options of things that COULD work,

4. she might not be serious: i once went up to a girl and said "something" she said "excuse me what?" and i said "sorry i told my friend you were cute and he told me to say something to you" she smiled and said "wow that was horrible" that's the important thing about noticing body language and facial expressions, some guys can't tell a "wow that was actually funny smile" from a "wow im laughing at your weak attempt smile"

i don't know if this article helped but i hope you liked it and if you have anymore tips reply

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie