"It is futile to argue as to which single leaf, which design of branches or which attractive flower you like; when you understand the root, you understand all its blossoming"

-bruce lee

This is for newbies, guys just learning pick up and I think its a very important thing to understand when trying to learn PUA material. Its something I wish someone had explained to me, but as it is, it took me two years of studying game to figure it out.

However, once I applied it I EASILY got my first makeout, within 3 days of understanding the principle. As if every technique fell into place.

I should point out, this isnt a magic pill. Its not something that you can read and expect to apply fully the next day, especially if youre new to the game. Not even close. Its just the foundation you should base your studies on. Once understood, you will always know where you stand with a girl. If youre in the friendzone, how close you are to a lay etc. etc. As you improve you can move on to more advanced techniques.

Its so easy to fall into the trap I did. You see these amazing feats of pick up and you try and imitate. You read some amazing lay report and try the same set up. You read a post on "MAGIC INSTA KISS OPENER 200% FIELD TESTED MOTHER APPROVED"

But nothing EVER sticks.

Well, this post is for you.

If youve ever felt creepy practicing pickup, this post is for you

If youve ever felt youre not getting the hang of it, this post is for you

If every number youve gotten has flaked on you and youre losing hope, this post is for you.

Question. What makes girls chase guys?
What makes some guys "irresistible" and other guys avoided like the plague?
What seperates student from master PUA in the field?

Its all determined in the female mind.

Read it again. Its all in her mind.

Something you need to realize is you will never really be in control. Its precentages, guesstimations on where her attraction for you is.

When women make "mating based"choices such as who she'll kiss, who she'll sleep with, you'd best believe its done carefully with and with a practiced hand. For the most part, she'll only go forward in the interaction with the men she sees as suitable partners (even if its only for a night)

This is important to understand. Everything you do in pick up is really just proof she will use to seduce herself.

Again, its never you directly. Its her convincing, seducing herself into your arms.

Women chase guys they want relationships with. They will rarely if ever chase just for sex like we men so often will. Your objective as a PUA and member of the secret society will always be to put your best foot forward, slyly aware that she'll fall for you seemingly of her own accord.

AFCs will try and convince directly, often with logic their choice of weapon. To them, getting a girl is like besieging a walled city, messy and hard work. True Pua is subterfuge, taking the city by being let in the front door. Its supposed to feel instinctively manipulative, it is at its core.

As you progress, you will learn techniques that advance your abillity to arouse and seduce your target. Youll find that the true masters are rarely ever direct even in teasing (ie. Slap her ass). Every word, every movement has a double meaning that registers in HER mind, that makes it easier to let you in. What techniques you choose to employ from a branch of pickup is entirely up to you.

My hope in newbies understanding this fundamental truth is that they will advance much quicker than I did. Personally, It feels like the past two years were nothing but inner game cultivation. Extremly important, but very hard work. Only now do the festivities begin for me.

Summarizing, Women chase men they see a future with. Its a biological need for them to be in a relationship, just as sex is. They dont feel complete without it. Knowing this, the key to your success is always going to be in her hands. Whether she hands you the key to unlock all that she is depends on how well you play the game. Good luck, gentelmen.

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