So I met this girl 8.5 in a Pub, Kclosed and fclosed on the next weekend, all went smooth. So I decided to invite her to movies and screwed up bad, we ended up not going to movies and having sex. She got buyers remorse.

Also I ended up as a cheap bastard cause it seems she expected me to pay for her dinner on the second date. Still we do talk and she wants to go out once more with me. My mistakes are very related to trying to be "unattached" and not diving up things. Mostly cause I was seeing that as the beginning of a relationship which I did not want on that time.

Times before I've been dumped for being looked up as needy so I tried too much on the other direction maybe. Well after things were already screwed up she surprisingly agreed to meet me and we had a great conversation and I came back to level 0. But she actually lectured on what I've done wrong. Wich I take as a great compliment.

What are you thoughts on that? Also she wants to meet up with me again, what can I expect? I will provide as much detail as you want.

unless you play the passive sissy boy which is good game for landing man-shy ex lesbians this is about the last outcome you want. If a girl starts taking the dominant frame from you and "lecturing" you then your chances of continued sex are fairly low. I agree with your analysis of Buyers remorse, however you took the exact wrong track to fix it. If you have any measure of success at this point let us know, id be surprised.

Hm maybe you can give more details what you fucked up in the movies?!

Without know what happened i would go like:

-You know i had so many one night stands the last weeks and it was so beautiful woman but i never get a real connection to them, i didnt really feal a lot. And i was a little strange on our second date because i thought it would be the same with you again which pissed me off. But after screwing i recognized that you might be a little different than the others. Lets forget about all the bullshit at start from zero. (But this time dont make it so easy for me to lay you )

I you fucked her so you had the value, just recover it.

Cheers

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What did she say during the conversation and are you the one who asked for the criticism?