Typical scenario is guys who attend boot camp or learn game to get a girlfriend, they bag the girl, then revert back to being a chode, she eventually loses attraction and dumps him. Boot camp again. Rinse. Repeat.

To the guys who are single and looking for a girlfriend, I want to know why you want a girlfriend. A lot of these kind of guys on here criticise the so-called "bad boys" for treating women like shit, playing mind games and being misogynistic.

NEEDING a girlfriend is a fucking selfish thing to need. Yes, you might think that you're the fucking knight in shining armour saving your damsel in distress by protecting her from all the horrible creepy PUAs who just used her for sex, but in reality, you are the most selfish one of all. You want a girlfriend so badly, because you want to feel good about yourself. You tell yourself you're doing it all for her, but you're not, you're doing it all for your own validation and your own sense of self-worth. Or you're just lonely and you are trying to use a woman to fill the empty emotional void in your life. "Using" a woman to fill an emotional void in your life is far worse and far more selfish than using her for sex. At least the sex gives her orgasms!

And at least PUAs are honest about their intentions and give the girls the option of great casual sex with no needy strings attached. If a girl pushes for a relationship and you like her then fine, go for it. But if you really want a girlfriend, stop looking for her and she will come to you, chase you and invest in you. I'm not saying don't approach women, but I am saying stop putting pressure on them to go out with you. They often only want your dick anyway, not a boyfriend. I get used for sex all the time. What about my feelings?

You victim you...

I absolutely agree with you. And I was like the guy you wrote about. But I got dumped a couple times and learned how to not be dependent on the girl which will take all the pressure off the relationship.

However, everybody is selfish in their own way. That's like the most basic human feature.

I am selfish in the sense that I serve my own needs above everything else, but I never push for monogamy. I always wait for the girl to bring it up.

That is beautiful, what you just said ;(

LOL

Having said that I would say I agree mostly.
If you "need" a gf, then something is wrong with you, in your mind...
On the other hand you might find relief in that you are like 90% of the people, so no worries at all !!

Yeah, you don't NEED a girlfriend. It's just fun to have a girlfriend. Anyone here also doesn't like to have multiple girlfriends? It's so much management, lol. And time-consuming.

Actually having multiple girlfriends is in some ways easier to manage than just one. It means you can say shit like "have an awesome night out with the girls tonight, I'll see you next week xx" then you can go out with your other girl that night instead. The girls love the freedom you give them. Your sexual pre-selection makes their pussies wet with excitement. As long as you can handle the fact that they might fuck other dudes sometimes, MLTRs are truly awesome.

It can be a problem with time management, but it's a good problem to have and it forces you to be more organised to squeeze in as much as possible. Every week you should have time to work, go to the gym, go out clubbing at least one night, daygame at least once for a few hours at the weekend and fuck all your MLTRs with time left over to yourself to reflect / meditate.