Are you ready for the 2nd part of my story? Redemption came my way... ( check out the first part of the story in "How I Started My Journey"
http://ineverbehave.com/?p=15 <-- Here)
Little did I know.... getting dumped from my EX was the
BEST thing that happened to me! And I'm glad I never got her back... mmeh I probably could call her up right now and win her over, but she's on the bottom of the barrel. No offense to her... but I've dated girls 10x better than her.
So I became a student of the game...
I had to re invent myself. That means I started hitting the gym, I grew my beard out to a nice manly ginger stubble, I started going out with the waitresses at my job and partied hard, I went out to clubs and started working on my game.
I started banging co-workers & customers, I started having some customers getting mad & envious of me because I walked around like the confident son of a bitch that I am.
Oh wait did I tell you I was a waiter at this time? Ok I was a waiter...
and it's the most awesome job for a man in his low 20's to get women (other than bar tending of course) -- don't worry... I personally don't believe the "shitting where you eat rule" absolutely doesn't apply at this type of job.
I started getting phone numbers from the beautiful ladies that i served... in most cases I didn't even hit on them,
it was purely from the way I carried myself.
I never got girls like this I was amazed. I honestly had no idea what to do when 2 girls left me their phone numbers after they left on a paper...
Brunette - (410) ***-****
Blonde- (410)***-****
I called the blonde...
if I could go back in time I'd call them both.
The best thing that happened to me as a server is when a group of 12 beautiful women sat at a table
and a few of them wanted me to autograph their tits. ( I was a rapper... pretty damn good for a white guy too)
It's amazing how your life can change when you're thinking right.
I didn't just have good times though... I felt pain too!
I remember going on vacation with a group of friends... they all had girlfriends except me. When I approached women and got rejected all they did was put me down (mean friends... ) . It made me feel like shit! In a way I felt alone...
but I knew I was on the right path.
I was walking on the board walk... a seagull shat on my head and some how my luck entirely changed that week.
Later that same week I went to the bar BY MYSELF...
without negative influences. (Plus I was the only guy who was 21 at this point). You see if you want to be successful at picking up women sometimes you need to surround you with positive friends that know what they're doing,
or go out by yourself so you don't have the negative cowards against the wall trying to be your critic. Not that my friends were negative cowards or anything.... it's just that the average person isn't going to put you under their wing.... they kinda just insult you to make themselves feel comfortable.
I was completely sober at the bar... cranberry juice in hand. For some reason I stopped giving a shit what people thought about me. I was in MY ZONE. In fact
I didn't care about openers or pickup lines. I didn't care about being rejected. All I did was walk up to a girl and say whatever the first thing that came to my mind.
Whether it was something as simple as "hey how are you ladies doing?" OR "My name's Dr. Dre and I'm a fricken millionaire". I was approaching 2-sets, 3-sets and 4-sets... I didn't give a shit. I remember a bouncer hating on me... but that just means I was doing something right.
I particularly remember walking up to a chick named "Q" she had a flower in her hair. I remember just walking up to her and touching her hair... looking her up and down like I was checking her out and giving her my stamp of approval. She then introduced herself and gave me her phone number in 30 seconds.
I DIDN'T EVEN ASK FOR HER PHONE #!!!
But ok I'll take it.
By the end of the night every girl was hanging all over me, they were calling me by my first name... hell i didn't even remember approaching half of them ... people thought i was a celebrity. I even had guys ask me what was 'My Secret".
This is when i finally knew I became a master at the game... But my journey doesn't end there.
Stay tuned for the follow up of this story in the next few days
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