There is a way that seems right, but ends in the loss of self-respect and boundaries. Have you ever seen a female and thought Got Damn!? Have you ever thought I need some of that? Have you ever thought she must have the best pu**y in the world? Have you ever wanted to try hard? Has trying hard ever seen like the way to go?



The game talks about having an abundance mentality, putting value on yourself, being the prize and not trying hard.
However, what if begging worked? what if chasing worked? what if trying to impress worked? what if kissing ass and giving endless compliments worked? what if letting her walk all over you worked? what if buying gifts and drinks worked? what if you were her slave? what if you were her servant?

This is will leaving you feeling like shit. That will hurt your confidence in all areas of your life. This will leave you questions your boundaries in all areas of your life. So why do it? Low self-esteem, loneliness, no options, unhappiness...I don't know!

Has it ever worked? Has it ever worked??? That's the question and until we can answer that definitely the pussy is going to stay on the pedal folks

I'm not sure your dream has returned- BUT - It looks like your Menstrual Cycle has!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Does putting the pussy on a pedestal work?


-thanks!

Why didn't you just ask this in the first place instead of writing all of that nonsense garbage in the original post? And why are you asking "black or white" questions. There is no yes. There is no no. I'm sure SOME women out there like when you do it. Most don't.

Because I am not here to please you. I liked the way I asked (all that matters). And the question looks for an opinion, not a yes or no. Now give your opinion or go away.

As a female you ARE here to PLEASE, no other reason to be here.

Unless your making me a sandwich.

Putting ANYONE on a pedestal does not work, because the pedestal makes that person unreachable, unobtainable.

To put someone on a pedestal goes beyond seeing that person as a role model or significant other.

To put someone on a pedestal, alternatively, means that one life has been diminished in favor of another life.

On the other hand, being complementary or rewarding, from true observations, mutual respect, or responding to 'good' behavior. Cab be VERY beneficial.

The difference lies for the most part, in the degree to which unhealthy emotional needs have been allowed to take over. Being NEEDY. Or WHO is more needy.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

The problem with your threads OP is that you make too many in the PUA Lounge implying advice giving from a supposed expert. Unfortunately, you give out mostly totally bad advice.

Look, majority of the members of this forum are either virgins or guys with broken hearts needing advice to better their situation. Very few active posters are actually experienced in seduction wanting to learn more on how other seducers do their thing.

The death rate among guys with broken hearts who have attempted suicide are higher than girls with broken hearts who attempt suicide. Any bit of misinformation from your end is highly likely to negatively affect the lives of newbies who are nursing broken hearts.

Be considerate to this forum's membership majority. They need help. If you can't give field tested advice with scientific grounding, just lurk around and try to learn from the more experienced and knowledgeable seducers around here.

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Approach. Open. Escalate. Isolate

Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

general-questions/topic137931.html

Female? You envy my penis size. That's quite an insecurity son.

You give a bad answer. How are you needy if you put the needs of a woman before your own?

How have you diminished yourself if you can please yourself and another, when few others can?

I am looking more for anyone who has had experience winning a girl by putting her on a pedestal. Writing love letters, giving thoughtful gifts, endless acts to impress her, working for her, worshipping the ground she walks on, making endless love to her..

There is no advice in this thread. It asks guys with experience whether they have experience getting the girl by putting the pussy on a pedestal.

I make a lot of threads to get discussions going, but all I get is bashing. Instead of bashing take sometime and start sharing your experiences. Maybe then you can help the guys you say you care so much about.

Nah. As opposed to direct advice, this one as well as most of your threads give IMPLIED advices. And most of those are totally bad advices. Learn to distinguish between an attack on a person versus a disagreement on an idea. There's a big difference.

Women (and feminine men) typically cannot distinguish between the two.

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Approach. Open. Escalate. Isolate

Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

general-questions/topic137931.html

I know when someone calls me a woman when I am a man that is a personal attack. Okay son.
Implied advice? First time I ever heard of that. If I don't tell you to do something I have not advised you. Okay son.
Men and women are equal. Women don't have to please men and calling someone feminine is not an insult. Okay son. Yes if you disagree with me that's not personal, but if you start saying I'm wrong and my ideas are bad then you are attacking my judgment. That is always personal.

Tsk. Tsk. This is how women argue. I'm done with this thread.

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Approach. Open. Escalate. Isolate

Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

general-questions/topic137931.html

And I'm done with your sexism. Its pathetic.

This is also how women argue....