Any suggestions? Has anyone seen any mPUAS cover this anywhere? My place doesn't always work out for various reasons...

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"Do I really look like a guy with a plan? ... I'm a dog chasing cars. I wouldn't know what to do with one if I caught it."

Logistics are important. But for a Day 2 you can say something like, "let's watch a really bad movie together. I'll provide the DVD and popcorn, you provide the TV and couch."

This works for a lot for girls I met the same night, I would say "afterparty...your place" or "can I crash?"

The most important thing is don't over think it as anything else as that, or she will be hesitant.

In fact, if you feel the attraction is very strong, you can go ahead and say "But we're not having sex." this will handle that objection in her mind...to get to her place then do the seducing regardless what was said.

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Tell em to invite you over. Pretty easy.

I made a post about this on reddit actually, here it is:

Per the request of a recent post for more outer game tips, here is something I've been asked about many times.

A couple days ago, I linked to an article about how when you have an opportunity you should take it. (http://www.reddit.com/tb/1mb7o7) This article suggested that you should not leave anything for granted and you should escalate as far as you can when you have the opportunity.

However, I got a lot of questions that went more or less: "I get I should be escalating, but I live in a 1 bedroom apartment with 12 disgusting roommates so bringing a girl back to my place is out and I don't know how to get her to invite me to her place."

To that end, here is one technique I like to use to get back to a girls' place.

(1) Make sure it is logistically feasible: the driving situation, proximity to her location, etc.

(2) During conversation, actively listen for or actively seek out an 'excuse'. While you can simply suggest going back to her place to hang out (and this is better than not suggesting anything at all!), I find having an excuse is better.

What does finding an excuse mean? It means having a legitimate reason to want to go back to her place other than to have sex. For example, say she is into art, ask her if she has any interesting art at her place. Her artwork can become the 'excuse'. If she has a pet, show an interest in it, her pet can be an 'excuse'. Note that the key with coming up with a good excuse is that it needs to be specific to her place. For instance, art in general is not specific to her place, but a specific painting she has (or maybe she made) is specific to her place.

(3) Turn the topic of conversation towards the excuse you identified in step 2 near the end of the date/meeting. It is no good to talk about some unique thing about her apartment 2 hours before the end of the date only; you need to circle back to the topic so you can then go into step 4...

(4) Ask to go back to her place for the excuse: "To see the painting", "To meet her pet" etc. At this stage, when the date is drawing to a close, just ask her. I prefer to ask as we are leaving whatever venue and not before the bill etc. but I doubt it matters much.

(5) Don't be afraid of being rejected!! Pretty much no woman will be turned off if you ask even if she is not ready and virtually no woman will go from liking you to not liking you based on that. In other words, you have nothing to lose!

Cliffs: (1) Make sure it is logistically feasible, (2) Listen for/try to pull out an excuse to see her place that isn't "too have sex", (3) bring the excuse up near the end of the date, (4) ask!, (5) don't be afraid if she says no, you have nothing to lose.

And I will add, the obvious, "can I use the bathroom"....

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