The woman looks to you to be a leader, to be able to take responsibility for yourself and to care for her. She's sensitive. She gets afraid. She's emotional and indecisive. She's insecure. As a man you bring emotional consistency, confidence, decisiveness, and protection. You are a leader.



When a woman first meets you she has not become accustomed to respecting you. So she will check you. It will be a choice between self-respect and submitting to the woman. Taking shit or loving yourself. Integrity vs. Compromising for some vagina. If you think Pussy is the most important thing in the world you're going to have a hard time. To be a leader you have to want to lead more than you want to be accepted. You have to find your motivation for self-respect.

Self-respect is essential for self-confidence. Self-confidence is essential for achieving anything in life. If someone disrespects you they can ruin your self-confidence and your life. Disrespect can take the form outright verbal abuse like calling you "stupid" or bossing you around or it can be withholding affection. Everyone has a sense of how they should be treated. If it feels wrong then it probably is wrong.



At no time when you check disrespect should you ever lose your head. Guys without self-discipline get into fits or rages, they get verbally abusive or even physically abuse. Disrespect makes you feel bad but you need to DEAL WITH IT. If you show you are affected the woman feels empowered and you look weak. You want to maintain a strong bearing. Bearing...One of the 14 Marine Corps Leadership Traits is defined as: “The way you conduct or carry yourself. Your manner should reflect alertness, competence, confidence, and control.”



Firm but fair. Things should be said gently and tactfully. If the woman calls you a jackass. Don't say well fuck you then bitch. No, you might say "what did you say? are you calling me a jackass? Because I am not a jackass. However, if the disrespect is blatant. You should be less gentle. Just keep in mind that if you are not tactful you risk losing the girl. If you submit to disrespect you also risk losing the girl. When faced with a shit test you can in a way feel like you are drowning. You want the girl. You want respect. But you just don't know what to do. Always stay calm. You can do it