I guess we are in the same page Monkey.
I haven't change , I'm still the same but with a lot more of expierience and a lot of more confidence on myself.
Now my body language has changed a lot.
8 days ago I went to a Christmas dinner, we arrived the house and 2 MILF's where talking at the entrance, I opened the couple of Mothers asking a question about the dinner and silly stuff , I chatted a little bit and move on (My friend was impressed ) Anyway we moved on and start gammign a coupe of girls in the room. Later on , I was sitting with this cute girl and out of the blue her mother approached and asked her for a ask her for a cigarette (She was the MILF I was talking early.) So I invited the MILF to sit down and she did

We started talking , I was playing C&F with the mother of my target...
XF: So... Are you married , Because I don't see any ring.
MILF: Of course I am
XF: Then , what happend to your ring...
MILF: I ... ( I interrupted her)
XF: Oh you removed your ring to talk with me, Thats just so sweet , but your not my type...
MILF:

ROFL ... You know what Xf yo have really good game.
(She turned around and told the girls in the table) hey girls get away from Xf ; Don't even talk with him , he has great game

. So XF how old are you ?
We continue talking for a couple of minutes and we left to a lounge ...
The point here is that I'm impressed how some details can change a lot in an interaction , your body language , the C&F attitude...
I look back to the old me and we still almost the same but those details are the ones that can make a big diference.
"Believe in Yourself" "Stand up Straight" "See to the eyes when you talk"
All those quotes, I can't tell you how many times my mom told me that, maybe hundreds but I never learned until now, When I see hundreds of books about Body Language and how that affect ...
" The intelligent learn from others mistakes , The dumb from his own mistakes. "
Happy New Year once Again