Dudes,

I've recently hit a problem, I've lost something, and I don't know what it is. My game is going down hill for some reason. In the past week I haven't been able to even open a set. I go up bum a light, or use an opinion opener, and the next thing I know my minds forgotten everything, and as every AFC does I revert to something like, so... what are you guys up to. I lose it. has anyone else hit this problem? It's like hells frozen over and I'm worse of then I was before I had all this knowledge. Please, help.

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Graffti, I kinda had the same problem. I think I am recovering right now.

Thing is, you read some books FULL with advices. And you have had all these
advices in your head. But pepole forget, and so did we. I suggest, just read it again, but slowly, like applying one thing at a time, you will remember it, trust me.

Also, you are not worse that before, you just know you were better. It is like going to top; while going up you knew you were getting better, and you felt better and better. But as soon you go down, you know you were at top once, and you feel bad instead of good, when you were at the same height before.

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You don't know the future, you can't change the past. The only thing that matters is THE CURRENT MOMENT.

I had that problem.

The thing that helped me a lot was , making a gameplan.

Sit down and write your game plan... you cna make a full game plan or just from the Attraction phase:

A1: Opener ... Select two openers to open and a story to back it up

A2: Attracting (Female to Male interest) ... Choose some DHV routines , could be a story a magic trick any thing , then think 3 NEG's that can fit almost every girl.

A3: Qualifying (Male to Female) ... Learn the Basics of Qualifying ( Maybe the Bait, Hook , Reel, Release method.)

Now try to memorize the openers, stories and NEG's and your ready to sarge, Go out and practice... After a couple of groups try adding some of your own stuff, thigns that you just think.

The best thing this will do to you , is bringing back your confidence and you will see... You will be back in the game

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thanks guys I appreciate the help.

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_Graffiti-

Hey Graffiti,

I'm glad you posted this one, 'cause a few weeks ago, I was feeling the exact same thing. The thing I'm happy to tell you is that it's gone now. I think we should come up with a name for it... like Venusian Block (similar to writer's block). Cause apparently, even the legendary Mystery felt it in Style's book when he got totally depressed twice.

What got me through that time was going back to the basics (restudying my notes and the original VAH) and promising myself that I would not give up no matter what.


Respectfully,

M

So, we of the PUA forum have now created our own term. VB- Venusian block. I like it, add it to the dictionary.

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