so I get the girl dancing, she's rubbing her ass and crotch all over me, her breasts all over me, smiling at me. Do I murder the moment with conversation? At some point there should be an opportunity to stop dancing and work on finishing attraction and/or building the comfort required to begin seduction. What do you do after dancing?

I was out last night with a buddy for some girl's party. My goal was simply to "have a great time" not pick up women or TRY to pick up women, but rather just be having a good time.

People weren't dancing. Just a small group of white girls. My buddy and I, plus some of the girls in the party hit the dance floor and the group of white girls pull me in and grind all on me because, "you're the only guys dancing!"

Soon a girl from my highschool shows up with her hot Asian friend and I go to work. We're still the only guys dancing so we look good, plus we're surrounded by women so we look even better. It was no trouble getting this girl to dance with me. Preselection works wonders on the dance floor. But, whatever, we're dancing and dancing. There's rubbing and touching and smiling. At the end of the night i get her number based off of me not having my high school friends number "so i might as well get [hot asian's] number too."

I give the girls my phone so they can enter it on their own. While the Asian's holding it, my buddy asks her "is that the new voyager phone!?" I go "dude, shhhh.. that's my phone"

But there was basically no convo, no nothing, just highly charged dancing foreplay. I'm not even gonna call her because I have no reason too. I might, however, invite my high school friend and Asian out to a party I have on friday night.

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-Murdoc