I am a newbie, but I can say that my style has been developing, especially with the help of this community.

Package your frame so that she endeavors you. how do you do this? For myself I see the HB's as a good friend who will not back stab me. Once she does something you do not like, package to her that inorder to deal with you, she must remain to be that good friend she once was, otherwise cut her loose. This clause is packaging to her via gift wrap: that she has the option of having you or not having you, but also it leaves a return clause on her part. It also says the door is open, and it is up to you to go through it.

Build your game so to get to this point, and do not jump through silly hoops. I used this when a Hot babe wanted me to admit she was my world. That is a big stupid hoop to jump through and I wont do that.