I know this place is basically about pickup, not relationships, but all the still rules apply here. I wasn't sure where to make this topic, so I thought I'd put it here. Here's what's going on.

I've known this girl since May, she has wanted me for a long time. We finally got together as a couple about 2 months ago. She is a major hottie, some of you might say she's a 10. That said, when we go to this party tonight, every guy there is going to want to fuck her. She's always been the girl that no guys could get...she's not one for relationships, and neither have I been, but here we are together. We haven't gone to a party since we've been together, and my major concern is her flirting with guys, or guys flirting with her. Or even her flirting with girls. I don't want to be there feeling like a dumbass with this girl who can do whatever she wants and get tons of attention. And I don't really want to retaliate by flirting with chicks. Basically, I have no idea what will or won't happen tonight, but this girl has a mind of her own. How do I tame this lioness? What can I do to stay in control and make her want to be by my side? How can I avoid feeling shitty if she decides to go off and do her own thing?

bigpua welcome to the forum.

The biggest thing you can do is to have confidence in yourself, and she will see that. You can't worry and obsess over this shit. She'll pick up on it. And that will be the fastest way to lose her.

Who cares if guys flirt with her???

Who cares if she flirts with girls???

What difference does that stuff make?

It boils down to respect and trust. If you ain't got those two, then why are you with her?